I'm after a bit of advice please.
I am in a single sex relationship and my DW gave birth to our DS in February. I am going through the process of adopting him, and as part of this, I need to give details of two referees.
The problem being, I only moved to Scotland a few years ago from 'Englandshire' so I don't have any 'long term' friends in the area.
Would it be better for me to ask people who have known me for years (but would not be able to come for any face to face chats with social services) or someone who hasn't known me for very long, but is local ?
I'd appreciate any thoughts / comments of people who have been in a similar position.
Thanks