Starting to feel like we are the first family to ever apply for a passport for an adopted child!
LO 'has' passport in birth name, we don't know where it is and can only assume it is still with birth family but 100% not with us or social workers anymore.
We asked for it from SW at the time but it couldn't be sent until AO had been granted (almost a year after placement) and by that point her social worker had left anyway and no-one knows where it is so can only assume BM asked for it back or it was shredded.
Passport office need us to return or report lost/stolen old passport before they can progress the application for a new one.
I can't cancel her passport as I didn't apply for it and even if I choose different options on the online form they need to contact birth mum to cancel it or have her send it to them. Which is a big fat no for obvious reasons and she might not have it anyway!
Has anyone else had this issue? Have I been randomly flagged and hit a computer says no wall that I'm not going to be able to get out of?
Surely they shouldn't need to contact my child's abuser who had her parental rights removed by the courts just to issue her new passport? As well as the obvious risks of new name and address being given to BM by the passport office.
We have a holiday booked in the summer so there's not a big rush to get it back I'm just exhausted with how much more difficult any 'normal' child admin is when your child is adopted :(