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Thedandyanddude · 20/05/2025 20:29

Me again.

So I've been approved. I showed interest in 2 little ones on linkmaker. One disappeared the next day, the other has been v slow progress.

However I'm meant to be meeting his social worker this week (after several cancellations and rearranging)

But now I've seen the other little one I showed interest in is now back on linkmaker. Would it be frowned upon if I asked my social worker to chase this up, even though I am meeting the other ones social worker this week?

I dont like "playing the field" at all, however if we aren't a good match I dont want to miss out on the other little one like I felt last time.

Thanks for any replies.

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Thedandyanddude · 21/05/2025 20:29

Anyone?

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Needaholiday21 · 21/05/2025 21:46

There's no reason why at the stage you are at that you can't show interest in another child. Id be cautious at showing interest in two many at once but this won't be unusual. Good luck!

onlytherain · 21/05/2025 23:58

I would chase up the other little one as well. Once you have met a social worker and things progress, I would focus on just that child though.

Arran2024 · 22/05/2025 15:26

I'm not sure, it's hard to get excited about a match if you have a couple on the go at once.

Thedandyanddude · 22/05/2025 18:31

Arran2024 · 22/05/2025 15:26

I'm not sure, it's hard to get excited about a match if you have a couple on the go at once.

I am very excited about this little boy I have the meeting for (been cancelled again) but I already missed out on a previous match, very long story. So I'm really anxious about people pipping me to the post.

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Arran2024 · 22/05/2025 18:36

Thedandyanddude · 22/05/2025 18:31

I am very excited about this little boy I have the meeting for (been cancelled again) but I already missed out on a previous match, very long story. So I'm really anxious about people pipping me to the post.

Good luck. We had two possible matches at the same time and it was hard to get our hopes up on either

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