Am I adopted

[ShyLionesss]

Found out a lot of stuff about my past stuff I though but wasn’t sure
my dad is only informant on my birth certificate
he wrote in a book to me you are of my blood
strange
he always said your mother had blonde hair like you and red lipstick like you “ but he was still with my “mother “ he would say you reminded me a lot of her
my mother was not nice to me at all ,,
my dad was the one who done the major thing for me
I found out I was registered in 81 and then 85 but a different middle name and different spelling of surname the didn’t get married until much later ,,
there are no baby photos of me at all only one with dad at about 4 years old

Sorry, I suggest you do a dna test through Ancestry if you aren't sure.

i am adopted too. I found my father and his children through My Heritage DNA database. They are all lovely. I hired a social worker to find my birth mother and be the intermediary for me to contact her. She was very unpleasant to me and I left well alone, which is what she wanted.

Good luck finding your genetic heritage!

like I did you may need a lot of emotional support from friends and your partner. I eventually had therapy to help me psychologically digest everything that has happened to me. I consider myself to be in recovery now.

Do you have a opy of your birth cert? it would be most unusual for your mother not to be named on your birth cert, so rare I have never heard of it before.

Send for a copy and see what it says, Id sen fo the 1981 and the 85, again, reegistration at 4 is unusual

Just wondering if you considered a DNA test @ShyLionesss?

I’m getting dna xx