So we have relatives staying over Christmas.
All due 24th , apart from dd who we have not seen for 6 months .We and she we looking forward to some time just with her due to this .
At a perty last night we got a call from her sister to say she and her b/f were coming today and did I have an item she needed.
I said but you are not due till 24 th ( apparently had told her sister had changed the date but not us )
This am I spoke to dh and sister .. they said they would both prefer a quite day and am tomorrow prior to arrival of all the guests . I must say to be fair to dd2 .. she is unaware that the plan was for quiet time with other dd , but on the other hand we were look forward to it .
aibu to tell her no it wont work for us sort of ?( she is bring her bf ) and we would appreciate time with dd as not seen her in ages . She is unlikely to accept this , seeing this as her home.
which would risk offending her ?
or just not say anything? … Christmas seems to intensify things and whilst we really want time just with our dd who we have not seen for such a long time this may cause an issue and we don't to .
Thankyou.