Reference questions

[Torvy]

Hi all,

Just wondering what questions your referees have been asked in their interview? They have submitted their written references, so it's about the interview itself now, and they want to make sure that they are well prepared.

One of our referees was asked how they thought my DP would cope with mess! I think mainly it was things about how we'd deal with difficulties. I have a history of depression so they were asked will I spot when I'm starting to struggle? Are we good at asking for help, calling on the support network? They were also asked what they thought about our relationship.

That's all I was able to get from them, but hope that helps!

Hiya, I'm not an adopter but dp and I have fostered and one lots of the questions involved have we had infidelity and are we stable as a couple etc, so nothing too intrusive but quite unexpected