Bit of a long shot...but I recall seeing a post a few years back, on Fertility Friends (I think!) from a mother who did a 'if you were born to me' experience, taking her girls shopping for all the things she would've got them if she'd been pregnant with them.
It touched me so much and have been thinking about it recently. Can't find it anywhere though, and that site seems pretty dead now with no option to contact admin even. So, long shot but just wondered whether maybe its author might be here. If you are, any chance you could message me to direct me to that post please? 