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Age for adopting?

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GPL123 · 27/02/2021 18:41

Sorry if this is personal. Just wondering what age you were when you started the adoption process and/or when you were matched. I am 35 but looking to start process in a few years. Is that age considered ok? Will be single adopter, so will it matter that I’ll be slightly older.

Thanks in advance.

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Jacketpotatoandbeans · 27/02/2021 19:06

Started process at 38 and matched by 39. There was a single adopter in their 50s who was first in our adoption group to be matched.

Ted27 · 27/02/2021 19:34

no problem at all, I’m single, started process at 42, son came home when I was 46

most people don’t as long as I did, I had several delays, including changing jobs

Whydoelephants · 27/02/2021 19:36

Started at 41 abs brought home newborn fta baby and 41.5!

PeterRabbitsLuckyFoot · 27/02/2021 21:12

Started the process at 28 and matched and child moved in at 29. Their sibling followed two years later. Started process at 30 and placed at 31

claireb7rg · 27/02/2021 21:20

We started the process in November, I was 41, he was 40. We're due to move to stage 2 (🤞) at end of march

Jellycatspyjamas · 27/02/2021 21:20

Started the process aged 40, children came home aged 46 - I too had lots of delays, sickness, job changes, sickness again...

dimples76 · 27/02/2021 21:43

I'm single. The first time I adopted I was 38 and brought my son home 11 months later. I adopted again last year aged 44

Italiangreyhound · 27/02/2021 22:19

I started the process at age 47 and D's cane home when I was 49.

gotasweaton · 28/02/2021 11:21

Registered interest at 40 now 42 with EP baby just come to us. DH is nearly 45.Perfectly acceptable being an older parent.

Sarahstwogirlseast · 28/02/2021 13:30

Started process at 29, placed 30, still legal parental status pending (over a year due to covid and other delays) expected to by mid year...

Mynamenotaccepted · 28/02/2021 19:32

First one came when we were 38 and 35 me being the eldest, youngest one age 3 was placed when we were 65 and 62! Age in our case was not a problem!

PaintedLadyWBB · 28/02/2021 19:52

Started the process at 31 and hubby was 27 and LO moved in when I was 32 and hubby 29

Widgets · 28/02/2021 22:03

first time we were early 30's, second time late 30's and now in 40's and applying for number 3!

JohnPA · 01/03/2021 06:59

Started the process at 34 and my kids moved in with us when I was 36. The process took 1 year and 6 months to get matched.

SimonJT · 01/03/2021 07:32

It really varies, I was 28, but mine is in family so different.

The parents at our adoption support group vary from 23 to 52.

CimCardashian · 02/03/2021 23:46

A single colleague of mine adopted a baby when she was 55.

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