Totally understand Oggsfrog. I was worried about all sorts of practical stuff when thinking about whether or not to start a family. It seems such a big thing to do you want everything within your control to be as right as you can get it. Not sure it ever is mind and you can go mad thinking about about all the changes you should be making.
From what I can make out of the adoption stuff they don't demand that you have lots of space or anything, just lots of love. And the whole process looks like it takes an age so bags of time for you to move if you wanted to/can.
I haven't amassed a huge library (yet) but I've got a couple of books. Would you like me to send them to you??