I’ve finally heard back. My sons parents are proposing moving forward one letter per year. No drawing or photo and it’s to be sent in a month they are aware is impossible for me to get time off to collect it and the month of my dads death.
I’m in pieces and don’t see where I go from here: they have stated they aren’t legally obliged to do so and don’t have to “if they don’t want to”
I’m sat at work in tears listening to babies crying and feel like I’m drowning right now