Can anyone help having a bit of a issue with my sw
We're 2nd time adopters and hVe also been foster carers for some years so have experience
The issue is our sw she is really nice but keeps trying to steer us to younger children babies now she showed us a profile of a child who was 22 months old our child is 3 we rejected the profile as our preference is girls and yesterday we enquired about a girl who is 18 months old she is now saying the girl is a little bit on the old side
Well oh was like well the profile you showed us nearly 5 months older than the profile we are looking at
Also she keeps going on about the child being mix d heritage yes we are a mixed couple and our adopted child is mixed however my birth child is black so I really don't see the issue I think we should be looking at mixed heritage, black , and white children tbh.
In the long run it is us who have to live and raise the child