Due to go to matching panel in a couple of weeks but there is a possible delay in intros. The issues are that a) childrens SW been on holiday not had last contact yet and haven't started moving on work b) christmas is impending. Our initial feelings were that we should wait until after christmas so as all the moving on work can be done properly but we have since found out that the fc is moving house just before christmas. Our SW thinks we should let chn move and then move again to ours after christmas as they won't be leaving their home as it were. We think that it will make things harder as they will be moving as part of fc family then suddenly moving again just as get settled. We think it would be best to move at the same time so chn can see everyone moving on, regardless of christmas because it's not the be all and end all. And surely moving on work over christmas when chn are high as kites won't be helpful either.
Chn are 4 and 6. What are your thoughts?