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bad day!

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twinmummy24 · 10/11/2011 18:19

started off this morning with my big twin completely ignoring me at school and calling one of the other mum's mummy, she has done this a few times now, totally blanks me always with the same mum,
then this evening after school we got into a conversation about birth mum, the girls decided that they wanted to see a picture of her which was fine but the only picture we have introduces them to birth dad as well so that opened up a can of worms,
my little twin has told me that she misses birth mum, wishes she lived with them and wants to go and see them.
they are both 4 so i understand that they have no real concept of what they are saying but it still was not a very nice conversation,
just venting, don't really expect a reply, we knew this day was coming and it has been building for a while, just found it a bit tough,
thanks for reading.

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purplehonesty · 10/11/2011 18:44

Oh I'm sorry you have had a rotten day. Just remember they don't know what the words mean. And our kids say I wish I was never born or I hate you I wish you weren't my mummy but they don't mean that either!

DrNortherner · 10/11/2011 18:47

Ouch. That of course will hurt. You are only human.

Have no experience of adoption but as the other poster says they are only 4 and just lashing out. xx

veryconfusedatthemoment · 10/11/2011 19:10

Sorry you have had such a horrid day. My 6 year old tells me he hates me every day. It hurts.

I try desparately hard to wipe the slate clean each day so we always start in the morning on green!

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