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Noel Fielding..

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CurlewKate · 07/11/2026 09:22

… is very silent about Russell Brand, isn’t he?

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localnotail · 07/11/2026 17:00

It is absolutely as dodgy as fuck that they were mates. I doubt NF done anything but being friends with RB is bad enough in itself.

However, there are a lot of people on another thread defending Laura Brand - like RB is sooo sooo clever and manipulative, like he could be charming and she fell for him, and how its not her fault. Would be hard to imagine he done the same with friends? Maybe a lot of people only seen his charming and funny side, and only heard of him being promiscuous - not predatory.

Shortbreadel · 07/11/2026 17:12

I don't know much about their history together but Noel seemed put on the spot and just playing it out. Of course he should have said this is inappropriate and not gone along with it.

Tiddlywinks63 · 07/11/2026 17:18

It makes me wonder just how many of Brand’s friends will find themselves contaminated by association; many of them must have known what he was like just from the language he used.
Certainly Jonathan Ross, Noel Fielding are two who, imo, are of the same ilk. I’ve never been able to stand either of them, there’s something grimly repugnant about their demeanour.

GarlicNothing · 07/11/2026 17:42

ScaredSceptic · 07/11/2026 12:00

But this is completely disregarding the culture at the time. Lads mags were at their peak, this sort of edgy "humour" was promoted, encouraged, broadcast and lapped up by many. Whilst looking back now we can all agree it was inappropriate, it doesn't mean that anyone who made such jokes at the time, or associated with RB is automatically suspicious.

And just to add, I can't for the life of me understand why people would think close friends of RB must have known he was a rapist. Do you think rapists go around telling their friends that they've raped someone?

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You're all putting a lot of effort into ignoring the fact that 'everyone' in Brand's professional circles DID know he was a rapist. Women were told not to be alone with him on the comedy circuit, at TV companies, at his publishers. Of course those close to him were aware.

Katypp · 07/11/2026 17:43

Tiddlywinks63 · 07/11/2026 17:18

It makes me wonder just how many of Brand’s friends will find themselves contaminated by association; many of them must have known what he was like just from the language he used.
Certainly Jonathan Ross, Noel Fielding are two who, imo, are of the same ilk. I’ve never been able to stand either of them, there’s something grimly repugnant about their demeanour.

Oh well that proves it then. @Tiddlywinks63 can't stand JR and NF.
Take them down!
This is turning into a who hated them the most and decided that the earliest competition.
It isn't right.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 07/11/2026 17:51

SockPlant · 07/11/2026 16:38

no, he wasn't a friend of theirs and wasn't part of their social circle who WERE watching that silently. That is the difference.

First we need to get the men in these rapists lives to acknowledge that their friend is a rapist (or making rapey jokes, or comments, or acting inappropriately) and to tell them to stop or cut them off. THEN randoms can call across the street or whatever, go up to them and ask the girl if she's ok etc.

But it starts with their friends and family. That is what pp on this thread are asking for. (I know how awkward it can be since my DH and some of his friends have been through this with another of their friends, and it split the friendship group)

Seeing as a significant proportion of the female population that went out in Camden through the period were making a point of avoiding him because of his inability to hear the word 'no' and the only thing that seemed to make a difference to his hearing was the presence of a giant beardy metalhead bloke to get the point across, it's quite remarkable how so few men on the scene seemed to know anything.

BillieWiper · 07/11/2026 17:52

localnotail · 07/11/2026 10:40

I might sound awful but it wasn't any school child, it was Pixie Geldof. Not an excuse, I know - but its not like he just plucked a teen out of high school. Also, I think NF dated her because she was Geldof's daughter, not because she was a teen.

From Ch4 documentary it looks like RB did date several young girls who were exactly that - just out of school. It also looked liked he specifically targeted them.

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As if a massive star would choose to have sex with a sixteen year old girl for the clout of her being the daughter of a one hit wonder from the 70s?!
He did it because he fancies 16 yo girls.

Gloriia · 07/11/2026 17:55

ginasevern · 07/11/2026 17:00

Oh for crying out loud. RB's attitude towards women was well known. He frequently bragged about his sexual conquests and won the tabloid accolade of "Shagger of the Year". His stand-up routine and comments live on air were littered with lewd, inappropriate and predatory comments. In 2006 Danii Minogue publicly labelled him a "vile predator" and that's just one of many, many examples I could list. So are you telling me that Noel Fielding totally missed all those TV and radio shows along with a multitude of rumours and general disgust in the industry? Because if he didn't (and he didn't) then what does that tell you about NF's choice of best friend? He couldn't have objected much, could he. Would someone like that be your best friend?

Yes we know his promiscuity was well known. That isn't what we're talking about.

The op and posters like you seem to think that NF always knew that Brand didnt get consent. I don't think it's reasonable to suggest that.

Blame the person convicted, not their many friends and contacts.

Are you the sort who would also blame the wife of a rapist or a murderer, thinking they too must have known??

ArrivingSoon · 07/11/2026 17:56

Apotofrealcoffee · 07/11/2026 14:33

I don’t know, did he commit crimes against children at work? Were his crimes on display for other staff to see who turned a blind eye? We know people did this for RB

Yes, at work/through work.

All I can say is ‘hindsight is a great thing’. It is very easy to miss the signs, not realise the significance, attach behaviours to other things and carry on.

Of course, once all evidence comes to light, it is easy to see.

localnotail · 07/11/2026 17:57

BillieWiper · 07/11/2026 17:52

As if a massive star would choose to have sex with a sixteen year old girl for the clout of her being the daughter of a one hit wonder from the 70s?!
He did it because he fancies 16 yo girls.

As far as I know he hasn't dated another 16 year old.

I'm not going to argue with you but if he fancied a young girl he probably could have done better than Pixie. He had a lot of young fans.

Edited: also, after he done the Mighty Boosh he wasn't exactly "massive". certainly nowhere near Geldof's level.

ArrivingSoon · 07/11/2026 18:03

localnotail · 07/11/2026 17:00

It is absolutely as dodgy as fuck that they were mates. I doubt NF done anything but being friends with RB is bad enough in itself.

However, there are a lot of people on another thread defending Laura Brand - like RB is sooo sooo clever and manipulative, like he could be charming and she fell for him, and how its not her fault. Would be hard to imagine he done the same with friends? Maybe a lot of people only seen his charming and funny side, and only heard of him being promiscuous - not predatory.

The case I have mentioned, the judges summing up was that the headteacher ‘had groomed a whole community, pupils, parents, staff, governors and local people’.
That’s how people get away with it, including where people are brave enough to speak out and are not believed.

Times have changed too. Sadly more acceptable at the time, behaviour, jokes, banter.

BillieWiper · 07/11/2026 18:05

localnotail · 07/11/2026 17:57

As far as I know he hasn't dated another 16 year old.

I'm not going to argue with you but if he fancied a young girl he probably could have done better than Pixie. He had a lot of young fans.

Edited: also, after he done the Mighty Boosh he wasn't exactly "massive". certainly nowhere near Geldof's level.

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Done better than pixie?! What do you mean by that?

He's a dirty git and shouldn't date that young. End of.

ginasevern · 07/11/2026 18:17

Gloriia · 07/11/2026 17:55

Yes we know his promiscuity was well known. That isn't what we're talking about.

The op and posters like you seem to think that NF always knew that Brand didnt get consent. I don't think it's reasonable to suggest that.

Blame the person convicted, not their many friends and contacts.

Are you the sort who would also blame the wife of a rapist or a murderer, thinking they too must have known??

I mean, that's an astonishing leap. To say that I'd blame the wife of a rapist. Surely you can do better than that. I'm talking about the men who stay silent when other men are abusing women. The men who say nothing when their mates are being vile or predatory. And those like Noel Fielding who not only actively remained best friends with one of them, but enthusiastically joined in with rape jokes. RB's predatory behaviour and vile comments were prolifically broadcast, literally! So NF knew RB was an unsavoury character and a rampant misogynist. It would be like having Jim Davidson as your best friend and saying you had no idea he was a racist prick with no respect for women either. This thread is obviously the mutual admiration society for Noel Fielding, so I concede that I'm flogging a dead horse.

Oliveoy · 07/11/2026 18:19

I know somebody who is very good friends with NF and his GF. RB was never part of his actual friendship group.

RaspberryCoffeePot · 07/11/2026 18:40

ginasevern · 07/11/2026 14:53

@RaspberryCoffeePot "They dont strike me as being the same type at all. I cant imagine Noel going round raping people somehow."

Well he certainly had a jolly good laugh about rape along with his rapist best mate.

Mm..Well, maybe his days on Bake Off are numbered. Rape and Raisin Bread's not really a good look, is it.

Londersand · 07/11/2026 19:00

localnotail · 07/11/2026 17:57

As far as I know he hasn't dated another 16 year old.

I'm not going to argue with you but if he fancied a young girl he probably could have done better than Pixie. He had a lot of young fans.

Edited: also, after he done the Mighty Boosh he wasn't exactly "massive". certainly nowhere near Geldof's level.

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What a disgusting thing to say

localnotail · 07/11/2026 19:43

BillieWiper · 07/11/2026 18:05

Done better than pixie?! What do you mean by that?

He's a dirty git and shouldn't date that young. End of.

Dont want to say crap about another female but if Pixie wasn't a Geldof girl I doubt she would have had a look in.

localnotail · 07/11/2026 19:44

Londersand · 07/11/2026 19:00

What a disgusting thing to say

Do you know anything about Geldof kids? I mean, really?

BillieWiper · 07/11/2026 19:46

localnotail · 07/11/2026 19:43

Dont want to say crap about another female but if Pixie wasn't a Geldof girl I doubt she would have had a look in.

A look in? Like she should be grateful a 35 yo man shagged her?

localnotail · 07/11/2026 19:50

BillieWiper · 07/11/2026 19:46

A look in? Like she should be grateful a 35 yo man shagged her?

I'm not saying she should. I'm also saying he dated her purely because she was a fellow celebrity who was hanging out at all the same parties/ places he was, "dating" guys his age way before he came on scene.

I would also add I find all Geldof kids absolutely tragic... Heroin, sex and alcohol at such young age.

Irridescence · 07/11/2026 19:52

Jonathan Ross started going out with his wife when she was 16 and he was 26. 10 years gap is not huge, but it is at that age. One is very much an adult, the other a child however sophisticated they say she was for her age. So all three of them had a liking for 16 year olds.

localnotail · 07/11/2026 19:56

I'm not trying to justify NF for dating Pixie, she was a tragic and fucked up kid who should have not been allowed to lead the life she did. However, I doubt he would date an ordinary 16 year old. Like I said, he had a lot of young fans, and so far there is nothing about him trying it on with any of them.

However, sadly, I would be upset but only mildly surprised if someone says he is rapey, too. Seems like all guys in power are.

Shloopie · 07/11/2026 20:03

I think a fellow teaching colleague turning out to be guilty of sex crimes against children is a bit different to Brand and his friends/colleagues in the entertainment world. Presumably if you're a teacher and get the slightest inkling a colleague has committed a crime you instantly ring alarm bells. Lots of Brand's colleagues were also his friends and it emerged in the recent court case that assaults committed by Brand were often done in front of lots of witnesses. So yes, lots of his people in his social circle knew exactly what he was like. And were seemingly either happy to turn a blind eye, or were unbothered by his behaviour.

TY78910 · 07/11/2026 20:15

localnotail · 07/11/2026 09:51

This is such an insult to NF who, in his younger days, was super cute.

Back in those days when I was a dumb teenager I thought that RB was super cute but look how that turned out.

localnotail · 07/11/2026 20:31

TY78910 · 07/11/2026 20:15

Back in those days when I was a dumb teenager I thought that RB was super cute but look how that turned out.

Did you also found his humour "cute"? Because NF's humour was a big part of what I found attractive about him. Did you listen to RB talking about ramming a dick down a woman's throat and thought "awww, cute".