Just do it

[PenhaliHOWMUCH]

Burn the fancy candle
use the expensive moisturiser
drink the expensive wine
wear the nice dress

the special occasion is because it’s a day with a Y in it. Life is too bloody short to ‘save it for best’ charity shops are full of things people saved for best.

I found out I have terminal cancer today and this Christmas will be my last, I’m 34 with 3 children under the age of 10. Life is too bloody short to waste nice things.

Seriously. Use the nice things.

How f- ing horrific for you - I iam so very very sorry

Even tonight however you are making an effort for others about something important
W what you say is close to my heart , very true life can change in a moment -vitrtual hugs- & I have seen other Mumsnetter say how sad it is to see drawers and wardrobes full of things saved for best

Thinking of you , hope Mn can be there for you xxxx

I’m so sorry, @PenhaliHOWMUCH. 💐I hope you have a lot of support around you.

Oh my goodness OP I am just so sorry.
And you are so right about making the most of the now because time is precious.
All best wishes to you and your loved ones.

I am sending you so much love and strength ❤️❤️❤️ I’m very sorry xx

I am so very sorry, OP. Thank you for your wise words.

Sending you and your family lots of love and strength.

You’re absolutely right OP. Don’t ever put anything off either, if you want to do something just go to do it.

Sending you lots of love and strength @PenhaliHOWMUCH

Yor are so right. I have 3 sisters and the one who is most stressed has the least to worry about.

Life is short as you know. I really don't know what words go give you but I hope that whatever is ahead you have the support and love of those who need.

Hugs and prayers

Wise words. So sorry for you.

I’m so sorry @PenhaliHOWMUCHwhat awful news to try and process. Wishing you so much love and peace.

I’m so sorry

I’m so very sorry, OP. Sending love to you and your family. Life is fucking unfair.

So sorry, since losing my lovely sister to this awful disease my motto now is just do it, you never know what’s around the corner.

Oh gosh!
Love and strength to you ♥️ I just can't imagine ....

Recently my DH (in his 40s) nearly died of a stroke out of the blue. A reminder to us that life is fragile. You are so right - life your life you only get one 💐💐💐💐

I am so sorry Op sending love to you and your family

Oh no OP I’m so sorry 😔. I started reading your post thinking how much I agree to use these things then carried on and it’s so much more than that. Sending you hugs