For example, if someone is unemployed because they failed all their exams or made poor life choices, why is it considered wrong to laugh at them or look down on them?
I'm not talking about people who are disabled, seriously ill, or caring for relatives. I mean cases where people would argue the person had opportunities but didn't take them.
Is it because:
We don't actually know the full story behind someone's circumstances?
People think poverty or unemployment is punishment enough without adding humiliation?
Most people believe everyone's life can go wrong more easily than they realise?
Or is it simply considered bad manners to show contempt, even if you think the situation is partly self-inflicted?
Interested in how others see it.