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18th birthday party for our son

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help1972 · 16/10/2026 21:39

we are planning our sons 18th birthday party black tie.. any ideas on thoughts on things like drinks, djs, photo booths gratefully received ..

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Freshrain · 16/10/2026 21:51

Where are you holding it ?
Would the bar at the venue not take care of drinks ?

Not sure what you are asking for when you say 'any thoughts on dj?'

What has your ds said he wants to do ?

I've never come across a 'black tie' 18th birthday party.

Iloveeverycat · 16/10/2026 21:52

Why black tie

help1972 · 16/10/2026 22:14

we just thought it might be fun.. any other suggestions

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Agatha1989 · 16/10/2026 22:20

Is he involved in the planning? Does he actually want a black tie event? Photo booths can be hired, along with props. The venue should provide a DJ and a bar, unless you’re hosting at home.

Freshrain · 16/10/2026 22:28

I think the crucial thing is, what does HE want to do ?

Besidemyselfwithworry · 16/10/2026 22:30

help1972 · 16/10/2026 21:39

we are planning our sons 18th birthday party black tie.. any ideas on thoughts on things like drinks, djs, photo booths gratefully received ..

A colleague did a James Bond themed 21st birthday for her son - black tie and then they hired a company to do some casino games and they had it at a hotel but they named each table after James Bond film

WokeUpEarlyWalkedTheDog · 16/10/2026 22:36

Regardless of what he wants, when you’ve agreed and oraginsed, accept that come 10pm he is going to want you and your friends and family to leave. And you should - let the teens party without the folks there!

help1972 · 16/10/2026 23:21

thanks everyone , when we say we its him too.. love the james bond idea.. thank you

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BCBird · 16/10/2026 23:52

If it's not a surprise party I would ask him

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