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When to send wedding card

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pancakesallday · 10/10/2026 09:47

Received an invite but for various reasons I’m not going. I have got them a card with a voucher inside.

Do I send it so it arrives just before or just after? Not sure if they’re off on their honeymoon straight after.

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TheOlderIGetTheStayerIHome · 10/10/2026 09:50

It used to be that cards received from people unable to attend were read out during the wedding reception, so I’d always send before, but I don’t think people even do this any more tbh.

Growlybear83 · 10/10/2026 09:51

I would make sure it arrives a few days before the wedding. I think it’s like a birthday card and means nothing if it’s received after the event.

DilemmaDelilah · 10/10/2026 09:51

I would send it before

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