Currently reeling from a fresh breakup, and it got me thinking how selfish the bloke could be in bed. And outside of it, but that's a whole other thread.
When I look back (on many liasons over the decades) I can think of only one partner who insisted I had an orgasm every time. He's now married, happily I presume. Sadly I would put him in the minority of ex-partners who have been conscientious in that regard. That's pretty awful isn't it? But I can't be the only one.
i know the age-old joke that if pregnancy was caused by the female orgasm we'd have a smaller population. But I'm curious to know how it plays out in the wild. This episode has highlighted to me that i need someone who is generous in bed and outside of it.
Has it been your experience that male lovers (casual, long term, fleeting etc) have been focused on your pleasure? Or has selfishness prevailed? I rather hope everyone is partnered with generous loving men and I made the wrong selection. So if you're happy to share, I'm intrigued!