Back story of last 4 years of my relationship eith my bf, walking on eggshells shells around his mum, lots of jabs/nasty comments.. an undertone that ill never be good enough for him etc etc.
Verbally assualted via text from her / his sister all bc I set boundaries to ask before turning up to our home as I was pregnant and ill at the time *specifically texted it to younger 17yr brother as he'd come round unannounced multiple times a week.
All of this abuse got brushed under carpet and forgotten... this happened beginning of June.
August 28th is when the main abuse happened to my face I was 5 months pregnant I also would like to say I still to thid day have not sworn/shouted at any of his family.
August 28th...
I had been one of his sisters home to take the toxic sister’s children to the cinema with my bf for a birthday present. The day had actually been lovely and there had been no argument. At the end, outside nice sisters house, my bf, toxic sister's children were close by parked behind mine.
I was sitting in my own car and I initiated a civil goodbye as his toxic sister walked out of home to go past my car. I said
“Have a nice evening, see you later.”
His sister responded that she wasn't going to forget how I had spoken to his mum or what I had done, but that “for my brother I’ll put it to bed.”
Never spoke poorly to the mum at all
I still said that was fair and agreed to be civil, but told her that I would not accept her speaking to me again the way she had on WhatsApp. Verbally assualt via text.
His sister then became angry and started shouting and swearing at me, repeatedly calling me things including “cunt,” “bitch” and “dickhead.” She said things including “Laurie can do better,” “none of our family like you” and “we all fucking hate you.”
His sister then went inside and got his mum. His mum "ran" to my car window and said things including “what the fuck are you doing now you cunt?” and continued shouting abuse at me. The two of them continued screaming abuse at me through the car window. being physically held back by my bf i was 5 months pregnant.
I started recording because of what was happening. The recording only captured roughly one minute of an incident that lasted around 20–25 minutes.
His sister lunged towards me to try to take my phone. bf intervened and took the phone, which stopped the recording. I then got out of the car to retrieve my phone.
While I was holding the phone in my right hand, his mum grabbed my left wrist and tried to get to the phone. She said:
“I fucking dare you to share that video or post it online.”
I got back into my car and had more abuse hurled at me. Bf not particularly saying much at all just asking them to stop. Mum lunged at me the second time I got out when she said he can do better.. "I walked up to her hands behind my back" asked what was that? She lunged forward saying "wtf are yku going to do about it"
Have not had contact face to face since aside mum/ sister trying to manipulate my bf with how much they love him and will always be there for him and HIS BABY!! and that he needs a separate phone without me knowing and that his friends are worried about him...? No ones messaged him directly.? Still both talking nasty about me.
What do i do now in my 3rd trimester feeling weak and alone.