I don't often cry but this really upset me. I've worked in elderly care and I loved those people. Such interesting lives, such experiences.
My 86 year old mum has been really scared by this news story.
Thankfully, before she went into, "A flat with a lounge and Lynn and bacon sandwich hour" whenever she's had dealings with the police or the ambulance they've always been upstanding and grand with her.
And since really. She sliced her ankle open with her own walking stick by accident last year and got excellent care from emergency services.
Mind you, that's perhaps the often much maligned Lancashire or small village mentality for you.
Same with my dad, whilst he was still alive.
Maybe it does come down to community or if not a sense of belonging, then at least a knowledge that everybody knows somebody and there's some sense of responsibilty.
I remember my dad being taken into hospital and one of the ambulance crew saying, "Howya's Neil. I know your daughter. She's Whatsit right? I went to (same junior school) What's she doing now?"
My dad was unimpressed at the time, seeing as he was concentrating on having a heart attack but maybe that fosters accountability.
We're not all random atoms floating around the universe.