I'll be 45 end of November. The last couple of months I've just not been able to cope and it's just come out of nowhere. I had my DC late and I'm suddenly completely overwhelmed by them. I'm low and irritable, I'm constantly worried about money (we are not wealthy but we manage, have a home albeit an older one in need of repairs), I feel inadquate at work. I feel like the DC would be better off without me and I don't deserve DH. My libido is zero.
I had some depression as a teen but nothing like this. Does this sound like perimenopausal mood changes? Or something else going on? It's really come quite from nowhere and I'm baffled (and feeling absolutely rubbish.)