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Can ds wait in the gp waiting room?

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Whyohwhy99 · Yesterday 17:51

I need to go to the gp next week. But the appointment is at 2.30pm. So I'm going to have to get ds from school early. Because I won't make it to his school on time. Could there be an issue if I leave him in the waiting room whilst I see gp? Hes 11 and sen. But he will likely just watch youbtube or something.

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Whyohwhy99 · Yesterday 22:27

beaglescurleduplikebagels · Yesterday 22:22

I’m sorry but I don’t think a GP’s waiting room is the best time to test this - if your appointment overruns or an emergency happens he’ll panic on his own.

If i have to wait longer due an emergency then I would be with him. I do need the appointment though.

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Whyohwhy99 · Yesterday 22:30

seahorsessky · Yesterday 22:23

Ask about afterschool, then he won't miss anything and you can get to your appointment without any worries. Or ask another parent about having him for the afternoon.

He won't go to after school club. And i can't ask other parents.

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beaglescurleduplikebagels · Yesterday 22:36

Whyohwhy99 · Yesterday 22:27

If i have to wait longer due an emergency then I would be with him. I do need the appointment though.

Sorry, I meant if your own appointment lasted longer and/or there was an emergency while he was on his own. It’s not unknown for people to collapse or be sick or whatever in waiting rooms.

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2026onwardsandup · Yesterday 22:49

I think if you don’t have any other option - I would do it . I assume your appointment would be 20 minutes top .
How would he react , if someone was trying to be friendly and chatted to him
? Could you give him headphones and an iPad / tablet and some headphones so others could see he was engaged watching something ? Obviously make sure that he didn’t have it on too loud .
What is the layout of the surgery , is the waiting area on the same floor as where you would see the Dr ? If it is and if he did become upset , you could get to him quickly .
You should be fine .

Whyohwhy99 · Yesterday 22:50

beaglescurleduplikebagels · Yesterday 22:36

Sorry, I meant if your own appointment lasted longer and/or there was an emergency while he was on his own. It’s not unknown for people to collapse or be sick or whatever in waiting rooms.

Thats a hard one. But i could say what if about everything. The other option would be not going and it taken me a very long time to get the courage to ho. If i don't go it delays thing's more. I also might bottle out altogether.

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Whyohwhy99 · Yesterday 22:56

2026onwardsandup · Yesterday 22:49

I think if you don’t have any other option - I would do it . I assume your appointment would be 20 minutes top .
How would he react , if someone was trying to be friendly and chatted to him
? Could you give him headphones and an iPad / tablet and some headphones so others could see he was engaged watching something ? Obviously make sure that he didn’t have it on too loud .
What is the layout of the surgery , is the waiting area on the same floor as where you would see the Dr ? If it is and if he did become upset , you could get to him quickly .
You should be fine .

Yeah thats what I was planning on doing. He would have his phone so he could ring me if he needed

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