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What have you learned from travelling?

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MadMAGA · 07/09/2026 11:12

I've been very fortunate in visiting lots of different places for work, study and holidays. I was idly thinking about what I've learned from it, other than generally expanding horizons, and came up with:

  • British fruit and puddings are really, really sweet compared to the equivalents in Asia.
  • Scotland's got a point when they complain about their infrastructure compared to England. The motorways are like 1980s England.
  • Luton Airport has the best cabin baggage and passenger screening security machines anywhere in the world.
  • I'm incredibly fortunate to have been born in this country.
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katscamel · 07/09/2026 20:31

I've learnt that I am very lazy and am very disappointed in myself I haven't got further in the languages of the places I've been to;
I've discovered how green cities can be, with parks between buildings actively encouraged....and how clean things can be
That there are some really lovely people out there who will help a random stranger.
Shops can and do open after 5.30 and evening shopping is great.
I need really good extra mature cheddar to survive.

Crushed23 · 07/09/2026 20:37

That wanderlust is an affliction and that I literally ache to return to the backpacking days of my 20s. I am never happier than when I’m travelling, and I desperately wish I could jack everything in and buy a one-way ticket to Vietnam, Guatemala or Sri Lanka with no itinerary and do it all over again. Sadly it is much harder to do now than it was back then. But one can dream.

BritsAbroadly · 07/09/2026 20:38

That the NHS is actually incredibly low standard of healthcare.

Thesearenotthedroids · 07/09/2026 20:41

That no other culture can make a proper builders' tea.
Fish and chips are god on a plate.
Queuing skills are very poor elsewhere.
I also learnt that I really hate travelling.

SpottyAlpaca · 07/09/2026 21:09

That German trains are not actually super-efficient. They are subject to delays & cancellations, just like ours are.

That children are the same everywhere, before adults infect their brains with their own neuroses, prejudices & religious / superstitious bullshit.

That anyone born a a citizen of a stable, prosperous, safe, largely peaceful democratic country which has universal healthcare & a welfare safety net has won the lottery of life. Britain isn’t perfect, but we are the lucky ones. Ask a Ukrainian.

SpaceShark · 07/09/2026 21:45

That we live in one of the freest, safest, least racist, least misogynisitc societies in the world.

Jibbee · 07/09/2026 21:58

That home is actually
where my heart lies

MorrisZapp · 07/09/2026 22:02

Dutch people are naturally friendly, German people are not.

York is best visited during the week.

It's always worth taking your own breakfast and teabags.

Damnloginpopup · 08/09/2026 01:25

Most of the world's individual people seem to really like the British.

Most of the world's individual people are actually nicer than the British.

Most of the world support Man Utd 🤣

There's a lot of amazing food to discover everywhere.

Great coffee can come in a sensible cup at a sensible price.

CambiodiNamio · 08/09/2026 01:31

UK airports are horrific, especially security queues. Give me Changi in Singapore any day.

iamnotalemon · 08/09/2026 04:21

AluckyEllie · 07/09/2026 16:52

That there are people nicer, kinder, harder working than me that can only dream of my life (on what I would call a bad day!) That I am so incredibly lucky to raise my children in a safe country with free accessible healthcare and schooling.

Agree with this too.

franke · 08/09/2026 05:49

People the world over are kind and hospitable and have the same worries that we have - aging parents, getting a job, a decent home, the importance of family, saving up for retirement. It's just a few men at the top who are fucking it up for the rest of us.

And, yeah, always take your own teabags.

Yello24 · 08/09/2026 05:53

That we stay indoors a lot compared to most places.

Chicaontour · 08/09/2026 06:03

Autumnallaround · 07/09/2026 16:47

Except for the immigration staff at Dublin preclearance who generally want to be your best friend after a couple of minutes chat. And if you're Irish they are almost certainly related to one of your rellies.

I love when they say "Failte abhaile- welcome home"

Xanhi · 08/09/2026 06:40

Going for a run without being hassled or attacked by men and dogs is a luxury many places cannot offer.

Autumnallaround · 08/09/2026 06:44

Chicaontour · 08/09/2026 06:03

I love when they say "Failte abhaile- welcome home"

Ah me too. And it isn't technically my home, it's DHs!

Xanhi · 08/09/2026 07:15

DebbieSavage · 07/09/2026 19:18

Having travelled extensively for the past decade I've come to really understand why everybody hates Britain. Every country I've been to has been significantly better than here, from the food to the people I have had such wonderful experiences. I am going to Ethiopia next Month and I cannot wait, I've heard such good things about the culture there. ❤

Do most people really hate Britain? I've lived abroad most of my life and London is considered one of the more desirable cities to live in. I'm sure Ethiopia will seem lovely when you are dipping your toe into the culture. However, you can come back to clean water, healthcare, housing and money that enables you to afford travel to other countries. That is if you don't get caught in any crossfire when you are out there.

boundarysponge · 08/09/2026 07:25

Christianity is a HUGE part of life in USA.
Russian cigarettes smell even worse than normal cigarettes.
People living and working on Scottish islands have been shafted by the ferry companies and the Scottish government.
Most people are really open and friendly, but India is friendlier than anywhere.

MadMAGA · 08/09/2026 07:28

franke · 08/09/2026 05:49

People the world over are kind and hospitable and have the same worries that we have - aging parents, getting a job, a decent home, the importance of family, saving up for retirement. It's just a few men at the top who are fucking it up for the rest of us.

And, yeah, always take your own teabags.

Definitely - the more that changes, the more that stays the same (mangled quote).

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reluctantbrit · 08/09/2026 07:45

That most countries have power sockets in the bath room and nobody dies from it.

pluggedunplugged · 08/09/2026 07:52

I have lived in many parts of the world apart from holidays. I’ve learned that it’s easier to deal with British weather by popping on a coat than to deal with 40C every day. What it feels like to be an immigrant in another country. How much a smile and a good attitude can go far when it comes to communicating. Humour endears me to people.
I love living in the UK - it might not be perfect but it suits me better than anywhere else I’ve lived, travelling has made me content with that - not in a smug way though, the values, the people, the culture - it suits me.

TeapotOnTheAga · 08/09/2026 09:06

That the world has mostly very kind and interesting people interspersed with the odd complete twonk trying to ruin your day.

That my dh missed his true vocation and he should have been a travel agent specialising in road trips.

Fly business class with someone who is a gold card holder

World outside of the UK is beautiful but in a different way, here we truly have pretty villages, spectacular coastlines, stunning countryside.

I'm lucky to go on holidays and stay in lovely places but I love my home and my own bed.

I always take my own teabags and a small travel kettle. In the lap of the gods where milk is concerned. I now take a yeti bottle so I can keep milk on the road with us The things you do for a tidy cup of tea.

CorporalJohn · 08/09/2026 09:13

LondonPapa · 07/09/2026 17:34

None of the Nordics are. But they’re beautiful countries and great to stay in. If you’re white. God help you if you’re the wrong colour, or look funny. The police take no prisoners. But again, lovely hotels, beautiful nature and great affordable skiing.

I am inclined to agree. Norway is by far the best of the three IMO.

pluggedunplugged · 08/09/2026 09:25

CorporalJohn · 08/09/2026 09:13

I am inclined to agree. Norway is by far the best of the three IMO.

I lived in Scandinavia for a year - of all the places I'm been that's the place I wouldn't return to, not my vibe - at all. All that liberalism is not very liberal at all - you think like them you feel like you have choices, the social conditioning is suffocating.

AnchorWHAT · 08/09/2026 12:29

That if you point to an item on a menu in south America ( in particular looking at you Argentina) you will invariably receive the item above or below the one you pointed to, try pronouncing it by name… bowl of grated carrot for lunch anyone ?

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