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What's your thoughts on reserving seats on train ?

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Lastdaysofsummer26 · 31/08/2026 01:02

Seen two rows about this, this year already

First time an older man, told a lady with a small child she was in his seat there was plenty of other seats at the time so she grumpily told him can't you just sit there....

Then today two families were on a train, a load of woman came on in hen party and wanted getbthe families to leave,As they had reserved the seats, they refused to move, then a staff member came along asked them to move but the staff member also told the she couldn't force the to move.
One of the hens started shouting we've paid for these seats
And one of the family people said we've paid for our seats too
There where no other seats for them to move to so the families didn't move due to small children

But of an awkward train journey as they just kept saying things
An hours journey

Doesn't seem to really work that well
What do you think

OP posts:
Laurmolonlabe · 31/08/2026 12:55

SheilaFentiman · 31/08/2026 12:50

If the train is packed, getting the ticket collector may not be possible

true but without a reservation there is no pint even looking for one.

Jaxhog · 31/08/2026 12:58

Whether its trains, planes or coaches, if I've booked a seat, I expect to sit in it. I once had a huge row with a train passenger during rush hour, Bristol to London, when he refused to move from my reserved seat, until other passengers shamed him into giving it up. I'd paid a lot extra for that seat! He claimed he'd paid for an annual season ticket so was entitled to sit where he wanted.

Thesillysocks · 31/08/2026 12:59

SheilaFentiman · 31/08/2026 11:35

Nah. Unless you are famous yourself, unlikely that putting up a video on SM would be seen by anyone known to the seat-nickers.

Edited

I meant just starting to film the interaction might make them move (as they wouldn’t know if you had a big social media following or not)

calbum · 31/08/2026 12:59

Jaxhog · 31/08/2026 12:58

Whether its trains, planes or coaches, if I've booked a seat, I expect to sit in it. I once had a huge row with a train passenger during rush hour, Bristol to London, when he refused to move from my reserved seat, until other passengers shamed him into giving it up. I'd paid a lot extra for that seat! He claimed he'd paid for an annual season ticket so was entitled to sit where he wanted.

You don’t pay extra for seats though?

viques · 31/08/2026 13:01

Wannabetraveller · 31/08/2026 01:29

Had this recently with someone asleep in my booked table seat. The other occupants of the table suggested I leave him and sit somewhere else which I reluctantly did. I then seat hopped for the rest of the journey as other people came to claim their seats and had to try and work from my laptop on one of those small trays. Never again!

They were “asleep”, not dead.

viques · 31/08/2026 13:08

KitsyWitsy · 31/08/2026 12:22

Yeah, that happened to me once too. We were on the train to Manchester for the airport and I think some other trains were delayed or whatever it was that happened meant that our first class carriage was full of the roughest roughnecks alive. I was fuming. We never got our money back. Life was chaotic at the time and it's so difficult to get anywhere with them. But it's the best you can do. It's infuriating with the prices they charge.

I had upgraded myself to first class coming back to London from Edinburgh. The upgrade included free coffee and sandwiches. Halfway there the train was filled by passengers whose train had broken down. The poor attendants were driven crazy trying to get coffee and sandwiches to the first class passengers. And they had massively over catered for some reason so kept bringing more sandwiches round.

bababamama · 31/08/2026 13:08

Whenever people have been sat in my seat (many times) they have moved when asked except once and then I found the guard to make them move

RaraRachael · 31/08/2026 13:15

I had reserved a seat on a 6am train. It had 5 carriages with around 4 people in each. I walked through the carriage to find my seat which was the only one with a reserved ticket. A woman was sitting in it who claimed she 'hadn't noticed". Unbelievable!

My friend once politely asked 2 football fans to move out of her reserved seats. They refused so she asked again. Still refused. Eventually she said "Will you get to fuck out of our seats". They moved.

AnswerIsNo · 31/08/2026 13:35

I'm not sure this is what are my thoughts on reserving seats on trains, which is a sane thing to do

but more like what are my un-postable thoughts on a large section of, ahem, 'society', who also often present as not sane

SheilaFentiman · 31/08/2026 15:01

Thesillysocks · 31/08/2026 12:59

I meant just starting to film the interaction might make them move (as they wouldn’t know if you had a big social media following or not)

Hmm. But seat-nickers don’t mind a carriage full of folks seeing them be CFs. I can’t think they would mind on the off chance that someone they know might randomly see them
on social media being a bit of a CF.

Jaxhog · 31/08/2026 16:42

calbum · 31/08/2026 12:59

You don’t pay extra for seats though?

Yes you do!

Not that it matters, if I've had the foresight to book my seat. Nothing to stop anyone else doing likewise.

SheilaFentiman · 31/08/2026 16:57

Jaxhog · 31/08/2026 16:42

Yes you do!

Not that it matters, if I've had the foresight to book my seat. Nothing to stop anyone else doing likewise.

Edited

Which train company is this? Cos I have booked seats for free on LNER and GWR.

RaraRachael · 31/08/2026 17:27

I only ever travel on Scotrail and LNER and don't have to pay to reserve seats.

Keymoment · 31/08/2026 17:48

Jaxhog · 31/08/2026 16:42

Yes you do!

Not that it matters, if I've had the foresight to book my seat. Nothing to stop anyone else doing likewise.

Edited

I’ve never ever had to pay extra to reserve seats, and I travel by train frequently. Usually LNER, Grand Central, and EMR.

TheignT · 01/09/2026 17:25

KitsyWitsy · 31/08/2026 09:00

You should if it's a long journey. Tbf, I only get them on the trains to and from London.. otherwise it's just biscuits.

Plymouth to Cardiff has never had any refreshments when I've done that journey. it's over three hours. That's the GWR direct service.

SoundWaves · 01/09/2026 17:29

WellConfusedandDazed · 31/08/2026 06:29

I honestly think people who refuse to move should be issued a penalty just like if they hadn’t bought a ticket at all. the UK is so… just… lame. People don’t respect the conventions because they know nothing will happen.

I agree with this.

The train companies should not be charging for a service if they are not prepared to enforce it.

You should be asked to move and if you don't you either get off at the next stop or you get a £100 fine

SheilaFentiman · 01/09/2026 17:43

@SoundWaves but many, if not all, train companies don’t charge for the reservations. Probably precisely for this reason.

Livpool · 01/09/2026 17:47

allthemind · 31/08/2026 02:47

Don't sit in a seat reserved by someone else, or move if they come if you chnace it. Simple. The end.

Exactly! It’s easy to do, and usually free.

SoundWaves · 01/09/2026 18:08

SheilaFentiman · 01/09/2026 17:43

@SoundWaves but many, if not all, train companies don’t charge for the reservations. Probably precisely for this reason.

So what is the point? Remove the service if it isn't enforced.

throwaway3749574 · 01/09/2026 18:11

My train (with reserved seat) was cancelled, so then of course the next one had few free seats. I sat in one and hoped for the best but would have moved if needed x

SheilaFentiman · 01/09/2026 18:11

SoundWaves · 01/09/2026 18:08

So what is the point? Remove the service if it isn't enforced.

Many, many travellers will respect it without enforcement, so it’s still worth making a reservation.

KitsyWitsy · 01/09/2026 18:20

TheignT · 01/09/2026 17:25

Plymouth to Cardiff has never had any refreshments when I've done that journey. it's over three hours. That's the GWR direct service.

That’s crap then. It’s the King’s Cross to Hull I get. Always get sandwiches. I can’t remember what company it is.

SheilaFentiman · 01/09/2026 19:26

TheignT · 01/09/2026 17:25

Plymouth to Cardiff has never had any refreshments when I've done that journey. it's over three hours. That's the GWR direct service.

I didn’t know there was a direct one!

TheignT · 01/09/2026 19:50

SheilaFentiman · 01/09/2026 19:26

I didn’t know there was a direct one!

Actually I said the wrong way round, there's a couple of direct trains a day from Cardiff to Plymouth but you need one change the other way round. At least that's how it was last time I did it.

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