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Should I report suspected attempted break-in at our rural home?

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SecurityConcerns · 28/08/2026 20:51

Should I report this using the online police tool? Is it too minor? Google AI says I should so they can build a local picture/data

Last night my dog woke me at around 2.30am, barking his head off. He sleeps in the dining area which is on the first floor and open plan to the kitchen. There is a balcony outside with stairs down to ground, so kitchen door is “accessible”.

I settled him and went back to bed. My bedroom window was open and I thought I heard someone going down the balcony stairs and a little cough. Wasn’t sure and I went back to sleep.

This morning a gate was open. We always close them carefully to a) keep the dog in and b) keep sheep out (we’re rural), so I was worried that there had actually been someone there on the balcony last night who’d disturbed the dog.

Getting worried, I looked for signs of tampering, and it seems that someone has attempted to pick both the kitchen door lock (on balcony) and the utility room door lock below. The locks are damaged. They still work from the inside, but can’t get keys into them from outside.

Now this may not have been last night… it might have like that for a long time and gone unnoticed, and there was nothing other than an accidentally left open (by us) gate last night. However someone has definitely tried to get in at some point.

This is a huge worry. There is always at least one car on the drive, usually two, so whoever it was doesn’t care that they may run into people! Also, one of our DC is in hospital some way away, so DH and I have to go and spend one night every so often, leaving (just turned) 17YO DD alone in the house! Don’t want to do that now!!

We are in a low crime rate area with few burglaries and break-ins generally.

Thanks for any thoughts on this.

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HappyHedgehog247 · 28/08/2026 21:54

I think I'd mention the car too in the online report and I'd see what advice guy can get about home security.

Comeonbabylightmyaga · 28/08/2026 21:56

We are also very isolated and the area had a few break ins earlier this year. It really freaked me out. Luckily I also have a very barky dog who would alert me! I also have insomnia so good luck catching me asleep!

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 28/08/2026 21:58

Yes

Tunaboona · 28/08/2026 21:59

My dp's live rurally. They have security lights, ring doorbells, multiple locks, never leave keys out etc. I think rural crime is on the rise as they know it'll take 5 hours to even get a vague response from police.

Everhopeful777 · 28/08/2026 22:03

Yes, definitely report and look up how to make your home more secure/ less attractive to burglars. Things like noisy gravel paths/drives can be a deterrent, as can slatted, venition type blinds at the window. Check your door & window locks are fit for purpose and consider installing some cameras & sensor type lights around your property. There are probably lots of other things that others might suggest.

Raspbellies · 28/08/2026 22:05

Of course you should report it.

SecurityConcerns · 28/08/2026 22:22

Thank you all so much. Not sure why I doubted it… some fucker tried to break into my house!!

We’ll definitely be upping security.
And now I’m worried about my dog 😞

Thanks again, maybe I’ll sleep tonight. But probably not.

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SecurityConcerns · 28/08/2026 22:23

Sorry, meant to say… have now filled out and submitted online report.

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SecurityConcerns · 28/08/2026 23:45

Update: received a phone call from police requesting photos, and someone is coming round tomorrow!
So pleased they’ve taken it seriously.

Thanks for all your advice everyone.

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