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What happened at the end of the ‘Spa Weekend’ thread?!?!

32 replies

unfamiliarwithyourwork · 15/07/2026 15:51

I left a ‘warning’ comment a few hours ago and went off to do this and that. Have come back and it’s pffft.

Was I right?

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Negroany · 15/07/2026 15:53

Was a familiar posting style that's for sure.

unfamiliarwithyourwork · 15/07/2026 16:03

Ah …

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Donotpanicoknowpanic · 15/07/2026 16:07

Link to the thread you are talking about?

CloudyWithAChanceOfCustard · 15/07/2026 16:10

Donotpanicoknowpanic · 15/07/2026 16:07

Link to the thread you are talking about?

It’s no longer a thread…OP said, it’s gone pffttt! 👌🏻

Donotpanicoknowpanic · 15/07/2026 16:12

CloudyWithAChanceOfCustard · 15/07/2026 16:10

It’s no longer a thread…OP said, it’s gone pffttt! 👌🏻

Oh, now I understand ☀️

unfamiliarwithyourwork · 15/07/2026 16:43

@Donotpanicoknowpanic … If the thread still existed I could perhaps just read it?

I just want to know if it was real. Or simply a ruse to get posters to erm … write stuff

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shutthefrontdooor · 15/07/2026 17:10

Is there not a deletion message? Usually they say if it’s a PBP. It defo sounded fishy!

Bananalanacake · 15/07/2026 17:13

'Write stuff' about what? there's nothing exciting about a spa weekend, if a man wanted me to go on a spa weekend with him I'd laugh in his face cos they are for women, (but I didn't say that on the thread for fear of looking weird).

BauhausOfEliott · 15/07/2026 17:14

Bananalanacake · 15/07/2026 17:13

'Write stuff' about what? there's nothing exciting about a spa weekend, if a man wanted me to go on a spa weekend with him I'd laugh in his face cos they are for women, (but I didn't say that on the thread for fear of looking weird).

He was trying to get women to talk about the kind of sex they might have on said spa weekend.

Wherethedogsits · 15/07/2026 17:15

BauhausOfEliott · 15/07/2026 17:14

He was trying to get women to talk about the kind of sex they might have on said spa weekend.

Crikey, I’m going to very different spas.

malloryknox123 · 15/07/2026 17:16

Was it the same poster who wrote about having sex in a field and invited others to describe their own experiences?

unfamiliarwithyourwork · 15/07/2026 17:20

So it was a ‘he’?

I know the tone was off. And then there was the request for specific wording for a conversation …

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BauhausOfEliott · 15/07/2026 17:22

shutthefrontdooor · 15/07/2026 17:10

Is there not a deletion message? Usually they say if it’s a PBP. It defo sounded fishy!

It is a PBP.

He’s been posting loads recently and he was around a few months ago too.

His preferred topics are:

Tight shorts / leggings
Skimpy clothes and high heels, especially in inappropriate settings
Snogging / PDAs in public
Whether women would have a one-night stand with someone they met in a club or had a crush on
Women enjoying oral sex
Women who are size 16 or above

He pretends to be a woman and often starts very innocently but then asks follow up questions for more detail eg ‘Don’t you find those Lycra shorts give you wedgies when everyone’s looking at you’ or ‘do they give you camel toe if you’re a bigger girl’ or ‘Would you let your celeb crush give you oral, most of us ladies prefer it to normal sex don’t we’ etc.

BauhausOfEliott · 15/07/2026 17:23

Wherethedogsits · 15/07/2026 17:15

Crikey, I’m going to very different spas.

It was about a weekend away with a new boyfriend. The spa part was incidental.

Darragon · 15/07/2026 17:24

BauhausOfEliott · 15/07/2026 17:22

It is a PBP.

He’s been posting loads recently and he was around a few months ago too.

His preferred topics are:

Tight shorts / leggings
Skimpy clothes and high heels, especially in inappropriate settings
Snogging / PDAs in public
Whether women would have a one-night stand with someone they met in a club or had a crush on
Women enjoying oral sex
Women who are size 16 or above

He pretends to be a woman and often starts very innocently but then asks follow up questions for more detail eg ‘Don’t you find those Lycra shorts give you wedgies when everyone’s looking at you’ or ‘do they give you camel toe if you’re a bigger girl’ or ‘Would you let your celeb crush give you oral, most of us ladies prefer it to normal sex don’t we’ etc.

I thought I’d missed something exciting lol it’s just the “us ladies” troll.
Bleurgh.

BauhausOfEliott · 15/07/2026 17:26

I think he’s currently on the Sex board talking about being overweight and having a boyfriend who ‘wants to do a 69’

unfamiliarwithyourwork · 15/07/2026 17:27

Thank you, @BauhausOfEliott.

Closure!

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unfamiliarwithyourwork · 15/07/2026 17:28

Was the same individual responsible for the ‘dressing as a fancy dress policewoman in hot weather’ thread - that’s also disappeared pdq?

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Delphiniumandlupins · 15/07/2026 17:41

I'm not here enough it seems. These gems have disappeared before I've seen them.

Simonjt · 15/07/2026 18:09

Wherethedogsits · 15/07/2026 17:15

Crikey, I’m going to very different spas.

Thats what I’m thinking too, it has made me want to book one for, a normal one, not a pervy one.

unfamiliarwithyourwork · 15/07/2026 18:10

Heavens! Three threads started today that I’ve commented on have now been deleted. The latest was on being new to MN.

🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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Nighttimenoise · 15/07/2026 18:12

Ah , that might explain the disappearance of the jodhpurs thread.

unfamiliarwithyourwork · 15/07/2026 18:59

I didn’t see the jodhpurs! 😂

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istherereallytimeforallthat · 15/07/2026 21:25

I was too busy reporting adverts today, a whole slew of them. Never seen so many in one morning.

Bananalanacake · 15/07/2026 21:44

Thanks for making us all aware, we need to look out for this sort of thing,