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How many over 65 still have sex?

134 replies

Mancity08 · 08/05/2026 18:49

As title says really just out of interest

how old are you and how old is your OH

OP posts:
Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 09/05/2026 13:24

Jeez, seems to be an unspoken sense that 65 is too old here (why 65 I wonder? Why not 64 or 71 or 99?) Given that's not even pensioner age now and many people would see themselves as still in (alright, late) middle age at 65 it's a bit sad to read how many have given it all up!

Anyway, 67 and still happily shagging along, thanks very much! Can't see why things won't continue into my seventies, and hope they do.

helpfulperson · 09/05/2026 16:15

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 09/05/2026 13:24

Jeez, seems to be an unspoken sense that 65 is too old here (why 65 I wonder? Why not 64 or 71 or 99?) Given that's not even pensioner age now and many people would see themselves as still in (alright, late) middle age at 65 it's a bit sad to read how many have given it all up!

Anyway, 67 and still happily shagging along, thanks very much! Can't see why things won't continue into my seventies, and hope they do.

I get the impression many mumsnetters think sex after children is unnecessary.

sickofthissick · 09/05/2026 16:17

62 and 69. Not as often as we used to, and not quite so...erm....vigorously... but still regularly! You don't just shrivel up - well I haven't!

RaraRachael · 09/05/2026 16:19

Everybody's different though. To me sex is a chore and I'm so glad I no longer have to endure it.
If I could have gone through life only doing it the 2 times necessary to conceive my kids, I'd have been delighted 😅

CurlewKate · 09/05/2026 17:18

Surely all of them unless they aren’t in a relationship with someone they want to have sex with!!

Whyamiherenow · 09/05/2026 18:28

Not over 65 but the amount of times random relatives have caught / nearly my 70+ year old parents having sex lately is 100% worthy of one of those slapstick comedy movies 🤣

MyObservations · 09/05/2026 18:38

67 and 72. 2-3 times per week is about the norm for us. Why do you ask?

Wimin123 · 09/05/2026 18:39

Once a week maybe twice if on holiday somewhere 😂

Pepperedpickles · 09/05/2026 18:48

I am intrigued to see so many in their 60s plus having so much sex 😳😂 I’m 45 and can’t be bothered with it at all anymore. And it’s not through lack of good sex, I’ve had a lot of good sex in my life, I’m just bored of it now. It’s like another exercise class to do. I’d genuinely rather read a book and have a tea. Each to their own.

JoBrandsCleaner · 09/05/2026 19:06

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 08/05/2026 22:43

We were still having it until he buggered off and left me seven months ago, the cunt.

Both aged 69.

😲 that’s so sad! I suppose we’re never safe you never know what’s in someone’s head. Look after yourself x

FortyFacedFuckers · 09/05/2026 19:40

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 08/05/2026 23:50

I hate that I know this but both my parents (divorced) are older than this and still shagging 🤢. They have six kids though so I guess it makes sense. Good for them, and I hope I’m still going at that age but it’s obviously gross because they’re my parents. I only know because I’ve overheard one and the other got a sex related injury.

I’m sorry but this made me laugh!!

KeeleyJ · 09/05/2026 19:47

nopiesleftinthisvehicle · 09/05/2026 08:09

Am surprised how many PP respond to a thread in which the OP offers no reason for asking.. and hasn't been back since.

We know its a journalist and we're indulging in feeding them a load of pish! 😉.

Bit like keeping scammers on the phone and playing with them like a cat with a mouse.

Sadcafe · 09/05/2026 19:52

64and 62, maybe once every two months and reducing

tanoshi · 09/05/2026 19:57

A journo......mmm

Mid 70's here and had FWB until recently. When active it was once in midweek and twice at the weekend. Long weekends away and then it increased

TheUnjustHasTheJustsUmbrella · 09/05/2026 20:11

Bit like keeping scammers on the phone and playing with them like a cat with a mouse

I keep Jane Eyre written in French by my phone and when I get an obvious scammer I just start reading any old paragraph chosen at random. Neither of us knows what I'm talking about.

60andcounting · 09/05/2026 20:28

ClovisWrites · 08/05/2026 22:17

3 or 4 times per year in our twenties and thirties.. about one a year now we’re in our forties… by the time we’re in our sixties we’ll be doing negative numbers I guess… going around stopping other people doing it?!

🤣🤣🥳

LAC350 · 09/05/2026 20:31

ClovisWrites · 08/05/2026 22:17

3 or 4 times per year in our twenties and thirties.. about one a year now we’re in our forties… by the time we’re in our sixties we’ll be doing negative numbers I guess… going around stopping other people doing it?!

This is brilliant!!! 🤩😂😂😂

previouslyknownas · 09/05/2026 20:41

Not the exact age but my DH is 60 this year and I’m 53
i would say every other day generally
When we first met ( 26 years ago ) it was every day sometimes twice 😂

neither of us smoke rarely drink not overweight and generally very healthy

long may it last

ClovisWrites · 09/05/2026 20:54

LAC350 · 09/05/2026 20:31

This is brilliant!!! 🤩😂😂😂

Yes, unless you’ve spent your whole adult life hugely frustrated, and only when approaching fifty realising how unusual your sex life has been…

mycheeseplantiscalledcharles · 09/05/2026 21:13

Whyamiherenow · 09/05/2026 18:28

Not over 65 but the amount of times random relatives have caught / nearly my 70+ year old parents having sex lately is 100% worthy of one of those slapstick comedy movies 🤣

This sounds very interesting, where/how are random relatives catching/nearly catching your parents in the act? Are they doing it publicly?

Whyamiherenow · 09/05/2026 21:16

mycheeseplantiscalledcharles · 09/05/2026 21:13

This sounds very interesting, where/how are random relatives catching/nearly catching your parents in the act? Are they doing it publicly?

No. Generally in their living room I believe. Thankfully it has never been me to catch them. Good for them though. They seem happy. I have encouraged they lock the front door though to stop it happening again.

margaritabonita · 09/05/2026 21:19

ClovisWrites · 08/05/2026 22:17

3 or 4 times per year in our twenties and thirties.. about one a year now we’re in our forties… by the time we’re in our sixties we’ll be doing negative numbers I guess… going around stopping other people doing it?!

Clovis this had me dying laughing and so many others on this thread. Just brilliant.
So glad to hear of all the bonking grannies and grandpas 🥹❤️

CaptBirdsEar · 09/05/2026 21:21

Daft question - of course people over 65 have sex and carry on having sex for as long as they want.

suburberphobe · 09/05/2026 21:37

Love it. Multiple orgasms too.
71 here.

mcmooberry · 09/05/2026 21:50

ClovisWrites · 08/05/2026 22:17

3 or 4 times per year in our twenties and thirties.. about one a year now we’re in our forties… by the time we’re in our sixties we’ll be doing negative numbers I guess… going around stopping other people doing it?!

Another one laughing my head off at this!