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Is Bonnie Blue really that clever or….

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thisfilmisboring123 · 30/04/2026 09:13

Are people just thick?

Keep seeing posts about how clever she is or how she’s a marketing genius.
But is she?
Does it really take a genius to work out if you say or do controversial things, people will talk/share posts about it.

Does my bloody nut in!

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appleberryhandcream · Yesterday 10:51

HobnobsChoice · 30/04/2026 17:10

Bonnie/Tia has also exploited women when she did a "sex ed class" with young Only Fans contributors who hadn't had public/filmed sex before. This was mentioned in Janice Turner's interview with her last year. Image is taken from the article. I think Bonnie/Tia is probably a sociopath, she doesn't seem to have the same emotions that most other humans have. A number of others have made the same comment

I saw that bit on the documentary.

It was incredibly sad.

Bonnie, for all her faults and whatever mental problems she had, had a good, stable upbringing, decent education / qualifications and had a good job before doing this.

The poor girls she had roped in to do this were obviously very vulnerable and doing it out of desperation. They were young, nervous, inarticulate, no support system, no other options or prospects. And she wasn’t even paying them. They were doing it for the “publicity”. It was a very difficult watch, I really felt for the girls.

I feel there would have been more backlash if Bonnie had been male and was exploiting them in this way, but becuase she’s female and acting so unusually for a female, people don’t really know how to react.

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · Yesterday 11:00

Agree with the previous posters. Bonnie Blue is just holding a mirror up to men.

That isn't all she's doing, and I'd question whether she even considered that the men involved would be part of the conversation.

MyTrivia · Yesterday 11:10

She really is a weirdo. I saw a guy interviewing her and she started saying some quite inappropriate stuff to him and when he reminded her he’s married she said ‘why should I care about your wife? She’s never done anything for me’.

So she has no respect for anyone and thinks that’s a normal way to behave.

MyTrivia · Yesterday 11:12

appleberryhandcream · Yesterday 10:39

Yes, I agree there is something not quite right with her.

she has a very dead behind the eyes look.

I also don’t think she is clever. I think she has just used shock value to gain a lot of visibility and she has managed to monetise it.

She has made a huge amount of money and if she managed it cleverly she would never have to “work” again.

But she continues to prostitute herself because she says she enjoys it. I can’t wrap my head around that.

I haven’t heard anything about a baby, surely she is not pregnant?

She and her ex-husband were unable to conceive - not sure if that was ever understood though.

Twitchie · Yesterday 11:16

Loopyandco · 30/04/2026 22:15

I don't understand the hatred really. She's controversial, sure - and I certainly wouldn't do what she does. But I really don't understand why anyone cares why she does with her own body. Genuinely, the vitriol on this little thread alone is so interesting. This isn't the puritan age, but her behaviour seems to genuinely anger some people.

And she's made a lot of money. Good for her I guess?

Im not one of the people who hates her, but she knows what she’s doing and tries to ragebait women so it’s not really surprising that she has haters.

Barely legal
having sex with your husband/son
1000 men
Fake pregnancy announcement
Men come to me because wives/gfs can’t satisfy them
Come and abuse me in a glass box
Fat women on benefits hate me
Likes Andrew Tate
Think she even said she’d sleep with a rapist? as long as he was bally’d up and she didn’t know, she wouldn’t be bothered.
etc.

BrownBookshelf · Yesterday 11:32

rainbowunicorn22 · 30/04/2026 17:30

is she really pregnant? there was questions about whether it was true or not. she put out a social media picture of her kneeling by a toilet so called morning sickness. hmm she did not look like she had morning sickness if she did she would not be laughing and letting camera's film her.
she is disgusting to be frank was it one of those 100 or so men she slept with is the father of the baby if it exists

I very much doubt it.

Doing what she does means she has a short time window to make a lot of money, both because of age but also because people move on to the next thing. She's basically sold her privacy and other future opportunities to do most other things in exchange for this short time window, so she needs to exploit it as fully as possible. Pregnancy porn is pretty niche, it would shrink her potential audience. I would imagine she's money savvy enough to know that.

dfitesh6753 · Yesterday 11:44

MyTrivia · Yesterday 11:10

She really is a weirdo. I saw a guy interviewing her and she started saying some quite inappropriate stuff to him and when he reminded her he’s married she said ‘why should I care about your wife? She’s never done anything for me’.

So she has no respect for anyone and thinks that’s a normal way to behave.

I wouldn’t take her so seriously. She’s like the manosphere influencers, she likely doesn’t believe everything she says, she just says it to shock for rage bait.

Loopyandco · Yesterday 11:48

Twitchie · Yesterday 11:16

Im not one of the people who hates her, but she knows what she’s doing and tries to ragebait women so it’s not really surprising that she has haters.

Barely legal
having sex with your husband/son
1000 men
Fake pregnancy announcement
Men come to me because wives/gfs can’t satisfy them
Come and abuse me in a glass box
Fat women on benefits hate me
Likes Andrew Tate
Think she even said she’d sleep with a rapist? as long as he was bally’d up and she didn’t know, she wouldn’t be bothered.
etc.

Edited

I agree - it's very antagonistic to social norms. I have no idea of her intellect in absolute terms, but surely the fact that she's ragebaiting, and people are falling for it so successfully certainly speaks to her clever ability to manipulate the outcome to what she wants.

She says and does these things, her engagement and exposure skyrockets, she's set out to cash in and she's achieved just that. Job done, I'd say, however unpalatable people find her. If her goal is money and fame then she has been clever.

CatRestaurant · Yesterday 11:48

It’s a bit like when everyone used to say that “Jordan” (Katie Price) was an amazing empowering business woman back in the day.
ETA: But worse, obviously.

ihateyousarahm · Yesterday 11:50

Easiest thing to sell sex

TheWickerFan · Yesterday 12:21

I do t think she’s particularly clever. Everyone knows sex sells and everyone knows going to extremes gets you attention, it’s just that most of us aren’t willing to do what she does.

thisfilmisboring123 · Yesterday 13:25

Been reading through all the replies and I think the majority are along the same lines.
Glad to hear it!

And absolutely agree with the posters mentioning all these disgusting men involved.

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Swallowdoubleandrunamile · Yesterday 13:49

Catullus5 · 30/04/2026 23:56

Because she smashes through every taboo when she sees an opportunity to make money by it, and doesn't regard the collateral damage as any responsibility of hers. She's emblematic of a culture where everything should be for sale and everything about yourself should be marketed and the weak can go to the wall. No one is exploiting her: she's the predator, not the prey.

I do think that blue themed picture of her will become a classic, like Christine Keeler on the chair.

Well said 👏

MyTrivia · Yesterday 13:50

dfitesh6753 · Yesterday 11:44

I wouldn’t take her so seriously. She’s like the manosphere influencers, she likely doesn’t believe everything she says, she just says it to shock for rage bait.

She’s responsible for what comes out of her mouth, whatever the intention is.

dfitesh6753 · Yesterday 14:35

MyTrivia · Yesterday 13:50

She’s responsible for what comes out of her mouth, whatever the intention is.

Of course she is, but I challenge your assertion she thinks she’s behaving normally, on the contrary she knows she isn’t and is lapping it up.

thehaplessgardener · Yesterday 14:40

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 30/04/2026 16:45

I went to school with her. She isn’t clever and she isn’t a particularly pleasant individual.

Is she the age she claims to be? I find it hard to believe.

appleberryhandcream · Yesterday 15:10

thehaplessgardener · Yesterday 14:40

Is she the age she claims to be? I find it hard to believe.

@thehaplessgardenerdo you think she looks older?

im generally not a good judge of age but i was surprised when I found out her age (27, I think, possibly 28 now?)

I thought she looked older as well. Well, “seemed” older, as it’s possibly her demeanour more than her looks. I’m certainly not saying she’s wrinkly or haggard or old looking.

Just had a kind of maturity that surprised me for 27

HelloItsMeYourRobotVaccuum · Yesterday 15:37

appleberryhandcream · Yesterday 10:45

Just because it’s shocking, I think.

Most people are well aware how disgusting men are. But women generally aren’t like that.

For the same reason it would play out very differently if I man was trying to do what Bonnie does. It just wouldn’t work becuase you wouldn’t get 1000s of women lining the streets in balaclavas desperate for a quick shag with a random guy.

100%. This is why I think so many people genuinely believed that she used to be a man when that photo was doing the rounds on the internet. Lots of men don’t (or don’t want to) believe that a woman can feel as disconnected about sex as they can. Hence all the comments about her being soulless and dead behind the eyes etc.

IDontHateRainbows · Yesterday 15:44

HelloItsMeYourRobotVaccuum · Yesterday 15:37

100%. This is why I think so many people genuinely believed that she used to be a man when that photo was doing the rounds on the internet. Lots of men don’t (or don’t want to) believe that a woman can feel as disconnected about sex as they can. Hence all the comments about her being soulless and dead behind the eyes etc.

I believe she has an enlarged clit which has led some people to think she's either a man or that she's got a DSD or is some sort of hermaphrodite. I don't think that's at all true, I think she's XX some women just have enlarged genitalia but most women don't go showing them around to all and sundry.

HelloItsMeYourRobotVaccuum · Yesterday 15:53

IDontHateRainbows · Yesterday 15:44

I believe she has an enlarged clit which has led some people to think she's either a man or that she's got a DSD or is some sort of hermaphrodite. I don't think that's at all true, I think she's XX some women just have enlarged genitalia but most women don't go showing them around to all and sundry.

Cards on the table, I don’t even watch porn so the fact that even I know this about her is something. I can’t imagine having the size of my clitoris discussed so widely amongst people I’ve never met but the fact that we’re here talking about it shows the reach of her… marketing I suppose? Which is clearly making her money. Whether it’s genius or not is still tbc. Grin

user1464187087 · Yesterday 16:00

appleberryhandcream · Yesterday 10:45

Just because it’s shocking, I think.

Most people are well aware how disgusting men are. But women generally aren’t like that.

For the same reason it would play out very differently if I man was trying to do what Bonnie does. It just wouldn’t work becuase you wouldn’t get 1000s of women lining the streets in balaclavas desperate for a quick shag with a random guy.

What, all men are disgusting and and women generally aren't?
Have you never met any decent men? Have you never met any women that sleep around?
I hate generalisations like this and i'm female.

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · Yesterday 16:20

She set out to achieve something which is hard to do- becoming famous for sex work- and she did it. That does take intelligence. Whether she's a good person is entirely separate.

Poulaphooka · Yesterday 17:02

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · Yesterday 16:20

She set out to achieve something which is hard to do- becoming famous for sex work- and she did it. That does take intelligence. Whether she's a good person is entirely separate.

Doesn’t it just take an instinct for gross-out, lowest common denominator self-publicity? In the past, she’d have been in a brothel, possibly working up to madam, or exhibited by some PT Barnum-type freak show-com-brothel. (I gather you could purchase sexual access to some of the ‘freaks’.) In 2026, she’s able to monetise her own shock value.

catsarekeytohappiness · Yesterday 17:10

user1464187087 · Yesterday 16:00

What, all men are disgusting and and women generally aren't?
Have you never met any decent men? Have you never met any women that sleep around?
I hate generalisations like this and i'm female.

I don’t think that’s what the poster meant. And I don’t think ‘sleeping around’ necessarily makes someone disgusting.

The point is 1000+ men queued up for hours to have sex with one woman. That IS disgusting. You would never get 1000+ women queuing to sleep with one man. Ever.

And even who ‘sleep around’ are unlikely to want to do what BB does and sleep with 1000+ men one after the other. You can be promiscuous without indiscriminately having sex with hundreds of men in one night.

Of course it’s not all men. But everywhere she goes there are men willing to do this, many are probably normal men we work with, are married to, are related to. You would be hard pushed to find any woman willing to do what BB does, and yet willing male participants can be found in every corner.

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · Yesterday 17:11

Poulaphooka · Yesterday 17:02

Doesn’t it just take an instinct for gross-out, lowest common denominator self-publicity? In the past, she’d have been in a brothel, possibly working up to madam, or exhibited by some PT Barnum-type freak show-com-brothel. (I gather you could purchase sexual access to some of the ‘freaks’.) In 2026, she’s able to monetise her own shock value.

No, she wouldn't. IMO, she picked this line of work because she saw an opening for the type of content she produces. If there wasn't such a route, she'd have picked something else. Many, many sex workers are still working in brothels, trying and failing to monetise an OF account or making a small amount of side money, and making content which no-one watches.

It's not that easy to come up with something shocking and novel enough to make her a household name and gain the amount of money she is making.

There's plenty of women who would have done it if they had been able to and are still trying to, but it takes skill and business acumen to make that happen.

For me, there's no amount of money which would make what she's done worth it, but then, I highly doubt I would be able to work social media the way she has done to get the amount of attention she wanted even if I tried.