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Why do some people describe pregnancy as lasting ten months?

53 replies

Overthemoun · Yesterday 11:48

I have seen this a few times recently and I do not understand the thinking. Average is 40 weeks. 52 weeks in a year. 52/12=4.333. 40/4.333=9.231

Also, whilst they count your pregnancy as from your last period, it’s much more like 38 weeks.

Do the people in 10 month pregnancy have 13 month years?

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fashionqueen0123 · Yesterday 12:50

ThejoyofNC · Yesterday 12:28

Average month has 4 weeks. 10x4=40.

I think you need to look up what average means.

ThejoyofNC · Yesterday 12:54

Giraffeandthedog · Yesterday 12:36

No, it doesn’t. An average month has 4.33 weeks.

Which you would round down to 4 if doing a rough calculation. I'm only explaining to the OP what she asked

MidnightPatrol · Yesterday 12:55

I went to 42 weeks and it was more like 10 years of pregnancy, felt that way anyway.

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Pricelessadvice · Yesterday 13:05

WheretheFishesareFrightening · Yesterday 12:34

urm… no months are 5 weeks long…

No, they are 4 weeks and a few days on average I think.

KimberleyMilkado · Yesterday 13:08

I have never heard a single person say this! Didn’t you ask them why they thought that?

Tillow4ever · Yesterday 13:11

SirChenjins · Yesterday 12:26

Literally - you're wrong.

I've heard this too OP, and I can only imagine it's because some people think a month is 4 weeks

Well this makes me very worried about the state of our schools then.

Tillow4ever · Yesterday 13:13

cobolli · Yesterday 12:44

Aisling Bea does an entire segment on it in her show!

Sorry, I don’t know who that is! Genuinely never, ever heard anyone talk about pregnancy being anything over than 9 months.

wishingonastar101 · Yesterday 13:16

Maybe you're talking to horses...

TiredShadows · Yesterday 13:35

Several calendar systems do have 13 months, but I don't think nearly any people in the UK who say pregnancy lasts 10 months are using one of those as the reason.

I would have thought that as pregnancy would typically be 9 and a bit months that some just rounded up, if only because of how long it feels at the end. I've never asked though.

GonzoIsCharlesDickens · Yesterday 13:42

Some cultures say 10 because of lunar months. A woman's cycle isn't a calendar month, it's average 28 days.

28 x 10 = 280
280 / 7 days = 40 weeks

The modern western calendar we use now has a whole long history of faffing with it and stealing days off February and the Church arguing about it. Whereas women before that existed would've wanted to estimate a pregnancy. 10 moons would've been a decent yardstick.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Yesterday 13:47

I have only ever heard pregnancy described as 9 months personally. But my own pregnancy was actually closer to 10 months because dd was so late.

MrsTerryPratchett · Yesterday 14:34

HollywentLightly · Yesterday 12:17

When you're overdue by 17 days, you can call it whatever the fuck like.

<weeps>

Yes you can. Solidarity sister.

BauhausOfEliott · Yesterday 14:39

ThejoyofNC · Yesterday 12:28

Average month has 4 weeks. 10x4=40.

No it doesn't, by any standards of averages.

The mean average is 30.4 days. The median average is 30. The mode average is 31. None of those are four weeks.

Four weeks is 28 days. Only one month has 28 days, and only three years out four, as every fourth year it has 29. Four weeks is a lone outlier, not the average.

WheretheFishesareFrightening · Yesterday 14:58

Giraffeandthedog · Yesterday 12:40

If you are allocating weeks to months (for example for financial accounting) you allocate 4/4/5, so out of every 3 month period you have 2 months with 4 weeks and 1 month with 5 weeks.

There are 4.33 weeks in a month (52/12), and so every three month period has 13 weeks.

You’ve just described accounting periods though - not months.

A month is either 28, 29, 30 or 31 days long.

My work has 13 4 week periods in a year, but it doesn’t mean there are 13 months.

No Gregorian month has 5 weeks in any scenario (despite PP’s comment that some months “obviously” have 5 weeks). Most other calendars have even shorter months as they’re lunar based.

FettchYeSandbagges · Yesterday 15:00

Spare a thought for the elephant, whose gestation period can be up to 22 months.

Tryagain26 · Yesterday 15:04

ThejoyofNC · Yesterday 12:28

Average month has 4 weeks. 10x4=40.

The only 4 week month is February. All the rest are 4 weeks and 2 or 3 days

YourOliveBalonz · Yesterday 15:06

I mean if you find out you’re pregnant in June, are pregnant enough to feel sick at the beginning of July, and don’t give birth until April, by a finger count you will have very much experienced a full 10 calendar months of pregnancy!

SarahAndQuack · Yesterday 15:32

cobalt123 · Yesterday 12:36

Surely since forever pregnany has been stated to be 9 months. It’s more recently that we talk about in terms of the number of weeks at 40 weeks.

Some people mistakenly think that the average month is 4 weeks long when in fact it is 4.35. That must be why they get confused and think it’s 10 month when in fact it’s 9 months. Or 9.2 months to be exact based on 40 weeks.

That was the pedants reply for you. 😂😂

People have been talking about pregnancy as 40 weeks since at least the early fourteenth century (that's off the top of my head).

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · Yesterday 15:39

Because people confuse 4 weeks and 1 month. My friend was counting her baby's months as 4 weeks and I didn't say anything about the "monthly" photoshoots, but when she said that he was nearly 6 months and it must be "time for weaning" I pointed that actually he was only 23 weeks and 3 weeks off. She was very sure that 4 weeks was counted as 1 month when measuring baby ages until I told her that by that metric, 1 year was 13 months.

Overthemoun · Yesterday 17:14

GonzoIsCharlesDickens · Yesterday 13:42

Some cultures say 10 because of lunar months. A woman's cycle isn't a calendar month, it's average 28 days.

28 x 10 = 280
280 / 7 days = 40 weeks

The modern western calendar we use now has a whole long history of faffing with it and stealing days off February and the Church arguing about it. Whereas women before that existed would've wanted to estimate a pregnancy. 10 moons would've been a decent yardstick.

that is actually quite a good explanation!

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Overthemoun · Yesterday 17:16

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Yesterday 13:47

I have only ever heard pregnancy described as 9 months personally. But my own pregnancy was actually closer to 10 months because dd was so late.

Sympathies to anyone who goes the full 2 weeks over, past or future.

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Yesterday 17:18

Overthemoun · Yesterday 17:16

Sympathies to anyone who goes the full 2 weeks over, past or future.

Induced at 14 days, with baby arriving a full 17 days after the due date. And even then, she had to be taken out by c-section as she clearly had no intention of going anywhere!

HollywentLightly · Yesterday 22:17

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Yesterday 17:18

Induced at 14 days, with baby arriving a full 17 days after the due date. And even then, she had to be taken out by c-section as she clearly had no intention of going anywhere!

I think you might be me

fashionqueen0123 · Yesterday 22:17

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · Yesterday 15:39

Because people confuse 4 weeks and 1 month. My friend was counting her baby's months as 4 weeks and I didn't say anything about the "monthly" photoshoots, but when she said that he was nearly 6 months and it must be "time for weaning" I pointed that actually he was only 23 weeks and 3 weeks off. She was very sure that 4 weeks was counted as 1 month when measuring baby ages until I told her that by that metric, 1 year was 13 months.

How can someone not realise that 🤣

RudolphTheReindeer · Yesterday 22:32

I thought the 10 mth thing is because we're pregnant for 9.5 mths, but they always date you from the first day of your last period which makes it 10 mths (even though you're not actually pregnant for the first two weeks!)

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