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Annoyingly misused words/phrases

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Echobelly · 16/04/2026 11:05

I saw a listicle about 'Nepo babies' of famous people who looked just like their parents, when what they meant is 'child of a famous parent'. Not all of them were in the public eye or attempting to break into the entertainment or sports industry. Nepo baby specifically means someone using their parents' clout or connections to get a career, it doesn't mean 'child of a famous parent' and that kind of annoyed me.

Have you seen any misuses of a word or phrase that has irritated you?

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sammylady37 · 02/08/2026 08:01

“I was today years old when I discovered…”

That phrase is spectacularly irritating because it makes no sense. ‘Today years old’ - what is that? Say you discovered something at the age of X, or you were X years old when you realised something but not that you were today years old.

Jeromeinaboat · 02/08/2026 08:04

Bear with me seems to be accepted now like could “of”. Now I just noticed mumsnet or my phone correct that to could have but it mustn’t do it on email or Teams because at work it is rife. I’ll just throw in “egg nore “ (instead of ignore. Couldn’t think how to show what I mean so excuse my attempt at phonetics here !).

Jeromeinaboat · 02/08/2026 08:05

See “bare” with autocorrected here too. I’m being asked to “bare” with at work constantly.

FuzzyPuffling · 02/08/2026 08:16

A BBC presenter has just talked about a "triathAlon". It's a triathlon.
We don't have a " maraAthon"

pouletvous · 02/08/2026 08:27

TelevisualArseGravy · 16/04/2026 11:48

"Cheap at half the price".

Of course things are cheap if they are half the price.

You mean "cheap at twice the price" i.e. this is such a bargain that even it were twice the price it's still a bargain.

I'm sure lots of people will be along to say "it's regional".

It's not regional - it's just wrong.

That’s called sarcasm. You misunderstand why people say this

pouletvous · 02/08/2026 08:28

Reoccurring dreams

its recurring

TelevisualArseGravy · 02/08/2026 08:33

pouletvous · 02/08/2026 08:27

That’s called sarcasm. You misunderstand why people say this

Not according to previous threads about this phrase specifically. Happy to accept it being used as sarcasm, but loads of people just think that "cheap at half the price" is the correct way..

Edited to respond to the actual comment I quoted!

Silverofthemoon · 02/08/2026 08:47

TakeTheCuntingQuichePatricia · 01/08/2026 21:51

I read a book recently where someone wrote discrete make-up. I didn't really think that made sense, but then google said discrete can mean distinct or different. And make-up can be that, so maybe its correct. I suspect the author meant discreet though.

Discrete doesn’t mean individual in the sense make-up can be individual. It means being distinct in the sense of being separate, rather than being distinctive.

Distinct entities, for example, or phases of a project, could be described using the word discrete. Someone’s make-up can’t. It was definitely meant to be discreet.

MarmaladeSandwich7 · 02/08/2026 09:03

“ He/She has mental health” when it should be “He/She has mental health issues”. This is done way too much & drives me potty! We all have mental health!
Another vote for rest bite!

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 02/08/2026 09:16

My dh took over the local Residents’ Association, when the former chap moved away.

He ‘inherited’ the online paperwork, which included a page for annual accounts, headed ‘Residence Association’.

Dh thought nobody would notice the mistake, or care, but I said yes, some most certainly would - I couldn’t have anyone thinking he was semi-literate, and changed it PDQ.

The former chap was an estate agent, nuff sed really.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 02/08/2026 09:20

MarmaladeSandwich7 · 02/08/2026 09:03

“ He/She has mental health” when it should be “He/She has mental health issues”. This is done way too much & drives me potty! We all have mental health!
Another vote for rest bite!

Edited

Although I’m a fully paid up grumpy old pedant, I had some sympathy for anyone writing ‘rest bite’ on a forum for carers of people with dementia. Which I visited a lot when in that situation myself.

The poor things were desperate for a ‘bite’ of ‘rest’.

notatinydancer · 02/08/2026 09:46

Nickname when they mean diminutive. Eg we will call the baby Nicholas NN Nick. A nickname evolves.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 02/08/2026 11:23

One thing that really irritates me is ‘there is’ with a plural. It’s everywhere now - do people no longer learn such basics at school?

TheThirteenthFairy · 02/08/2026 13:34

ToadRage · 16/04/2026 12:21

I used to work in a shop on a retail.park. it had a sign on it saying 'please return to unit 52 of found wondering' on my last day i put a sticker on it saying 'i think therefore i am'.

I wonder, therefore I might be.

Askingforafriendtoday · 02/08/2026 13:38

MarmaladeSandwich7 · 02/08/2026 09:03

“ He/She has mental health” when it should be “He/She has mental health issues”. This is done way too much & drives me potty! We all have mental health!
Another vote for rest bite!

Edited

Prefer mentally ill tbh

TheThirteenthFairy · 02/08/2026 13:45

TelevisualArseGravy · 16/04/2026 13:07

But the entire phrase is "if you think that, then you have another think coming. What you thought is wrong so you need to think again.

And people commonly say, 'I'll have a think about that.'

TheThirteenthFairy · 02/08/2026 16:49

ConnieHeart · 20/04/2026 15:33

I've heard many people refer to holidays as half term when they're technically not but I've never heard or read a single person refer to the summer holidays as half term

If you don't have, or know of anybody constrained by terms, you just notice lots of kids around and say 'half term.'

echt · 09/08/2026 09:06

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 02/08/2026 11:23

One thing that really irritates me is ‘there is’ with a plural. It’s everywhere now - do people no longer learn such basics at school?

It does my head in.

I blame Levi's. "There's rivets... and there's Levi's rivets".

"There ARE rivets, ya fucking moron," I'd scream at the TV.

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Knittedfairies2 · 09/08/2026 10:19

Is it me? The number of customers who want 'thick' or 'thin' ribbon when they mean wide or narrow irritates me, and then Esme used 'thick' on the Sewing Bee's Mexican week. It must be me...

TakeTheCuntingQuichePatricia · 09/08/2026 11:42

Silverofthemoon · 02/08/2026 08:47

Discrete doesn’t mean individual in the sense make-up can be individual. It means being distinct in the sense of being separate, rather than being distinctive.

Distinct entities, for example, or phases of a project, could be described using the word discrete. Someone’s make-up can’t. It was definitely meant to be discreet.

That's what I thought. And then questioned myself. Thanks for clarifying it.

Steala · 09/08/2026 13:16

Decimate. It is used all the time to signify something much worse than a reduction by 10%.

Silverofthemoon · 09/08/2026 13:35

Steala · 09/08/2026 13:16

Decimate. It is used all the time to signify something much worse than a reduction by 10%.

That’s because the meaning has changed in the centuries since it was originally used.

utahsainthood · 09/08/2026 17:57

Not read whole thread but I will add - stepped foot. Drives me mad!

Askingforafriendtoday · 10/08/2026 01:07

Off his own back when it should be off his own bat

MotherofPufflings · 10/08/2026 09:30

I saw a beautiful eggcorn yesterday: 'Try and error' (presumably 'trial and error')