Been apart from XH since 2018, have one DC early secondary. DC has ASD diagnosis for context and I do about 90% with him, rest with his dad. He’s in mainstream school and is mildly affected but lots of emotional support needed.
I work full time and have lovely friends and family who are really supportive and I spend lots of time with all of them, both with my DC and without.
I just don’t feel the need to look for a relationship and haven’t in 8 years. I’ve had a couple of flings but nothing I would want to take further.
I am very unusual amongst my friends all of whom are married with multiple DC, and I do sense they think I’m a bit odd for not wanting to share more than an occasional bed with a man.
I am happy with my life and enjoy my own company but is this a weird way to be??