DD 26 is getting wed this month in a registery office. She and fiance have a child 2yo and lives nearly 400miles away.
She said it was a small event, not wanting to spend too much.
She is planning it very casually imo. Told me to announce to the rest of the family , even though there is a guest limit.
Me and her father are separated- not yet divorced- for most of her life. She has invited him out of obligation. A few of us are travelling and staying at a nearby hotel.
Who should offer to pay for the meal after the registry office after the event and her outfit? ? Them? Me? Her dad?
We are far from a traditional family, I don't want to come over controlling and ruin her wedding but she is our only daughter.