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16 year old dsd just got lip filler

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tribiani · 27/12/2025 21:27

How would you feel about this ? Dh doesn’t have a relationship with mum, they can’t get on, he isn’t perfect but she has been very very hostile over the years, family courts involved etc, we have a good relationship with dsd, holidays and see each other once a month (live 1.30 away, mum moved, several times)
Anyway… she’s 16 so I’m not sure if it’s even legal, is it ? Her lips are massively swollen, she had 1ml injected. She’s in pain with them. I just think it’s so irresponsible to let it happen. And before anyone says, we had no idea she was getting it done, saw her a few days ago and gave her her Xmas money, no mention of it unail she’s sent me a pic earlier on! It was £70 apparently

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Minjou · 27/12/2025 22:42

COUNCAT14 · 27/12/2025 22:39

It is illegal for under 18. But I would be most concerned that it was £70 for 1ml and the fact she is in pain. Fillers themselves cost more than that at wholesale price (or so I believe) so I’d be really worried about what has actually been injected. I pay around £220 for 1ml and that’s not the most premium brand! Please report this. Although it’s not going to change the outcome for your DSD, another teen could come off even worse.

Report what? She doesn't know who did it.

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tribiani · 27/12/2025 22:42

COUNCAT14 · 27/12/2025 22:39

It is illegal for under 18. But I would be most concerned that it was £70 for 1ml and the fact she is in pain. Fillers themselves cost more than that at wholesale price (or so I believe) so I’d be really worried about what has actually been injected. I pay around £220 for 1ml and that’s not the most premium brand! Please report this. Although it’s not going to change the outcome for your DSD, another teen could come off even worse.

Oh wow that really is a big price difference! I didn’t know how much they usually cost but I knew it was more than £70. I will see if I can get it out of her but she isn’t stupid and is very secretive

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GarliceGran · 27/12/2025 23:06

Honestly OP, I’d phone 101 and ask for their advice. This “practitioner” needs to be stoped immediately.

Minjou · 27/12/2025 23:12

GarliceGran · 27/12/2025 23:06

Honestly OP, I’d phone 101 and ask for their advice. This “practitioner” needs to be stoped immediately.

Advice about what? Again, OP has no clue who did the lip fillers.

COUNCAT14 · 28/12/2025 07:58

@Minjou do you do dodgy aesthetics by any chance? You seem hell bent on drawing the OP away from reporting.

It doesn’t matter that she doesn’t know who it is. An illegal practice has been undertaken here. If someone had sold her heroin would you also discourage reporting because she’s not saying who the dealer was? Other professionals would speak to the DSD to get more information and explain the seriousness.

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tribiani · 28/12/2025 08:12

Dsd doesn’t go to college (that’s a whole other story of not being guided properly) so no profession like teachers would notice her now huge lips

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