I’d been invited to spend Christmas with a family member 200 miles away, but couldn’t go (no kennel availability for my dog). Today the kennels called and offered me first refusal on the space. Invite is still open and family member has said they’re really looking forward to seeing me, says I don’t need to bring anything as all food and drink etc are sorted. I feel really awkward arriving anywhere empty-handed, but particularly so at Christmas - I do have a couple of bottles of champagne that are going in my case anyway, but I’m paralysed by indecision at this point and I only have a limited chance to sort anything out before I go on Tuesday.
What would you do…?