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Why do a lot of students act like this?

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caiustonne · 29/11/2025 03:04

At school, when a child has chewing gum or a drink or just in general anything to eat, why is it so common for other students (whether their friends or not) to ask for some?

I noticed this when before I recently left school and even now, for instance, I’d be drinking a bottle of water or a drink at break time or in the lesson and someone would ask for a sip. I thought that was really weird because it’s not like they were dying of thirst all the time and then when you let when once person have a sip, others would ask for some too. But, more to the point, why would you ask to drink from someone else’s bottle instead of getting your own?

Likewise, whenever I or someone else had chewing gum, everyone in the class would suddenly want some; or if someone had a chocolate, everyone would be asking for a piece. I just found that to be extremely greedy since personally, no matter how hungry I was, I would never ask for food from someone else.

Do you know why students may behave like this? Is it because they maybe don’t get fed well at home?

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Goodbyeimgoinghome · 29/11/2025 04:32

Small children are encouraged to share their toys, treats, space with others. At some point this ends and adults don’t have to share their home, car, money, lunch with anyone if they don’t want to. Maybe you are further along than them in this process. Just say no.

Notmyreality · 29/11/2025 09:33

Basic human nature. You see someone with something, you think I want some of that. Then herd mentally and fomo kick in as everyone wants it and no one wants to be
the odd one out. Pretty obvious.

EmeraldRoulette · 29/11/2025 13:17

Honestly, in today's weird world, I wonder if it's a way of trying to connect.

smallglassbottle · 29/11/2025 13:50

It's rude to ask. People should wait until its offered.

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