No way I can be attractive to anyone

[Lovelikethisbefore]

Ten stone overweight for reference just talking about myself

What are you looking for here OP?

Attraction occurs when people like who you are not what you are and that only happens when you like yourself

Darling, we only have one life and losing weight is not impossible. You just have to think about do you want it bad enough? If you do, You need to summon your inner discipline and eat less, Work out every day. Look into the weight loss injections if you need to. If you’re miserable inside yourself, Why not just commit to doing something about your weight? It’s not easy, but it’s not impossible!! If you start now, you can enter 2026 in amazing shape greater confidence and you will feel more attractive.

If you want it bad enough, you can do it. I believe in you because it obviously bothers you enough to post on a mn. Good luck!

Of course you can. People of all ages, shapes, sizes and disabilities find love and attraction every day.

Some people are attracted to overweight people but if you feel bad about how you look then you can do something about it. Little changes can add up over time.

Of course you can. There are men who are only attracted to very slim women. There are men who are only attracted to very athletic figures. There are men who are only attracted to the Botox and fillers look. There are men who are only attracted to larger women. There are men who are only attracted to the alternative look, with piercings and tattoos. There are men who are only attracted to a really natural look. Whatever you look like, there are going to be a group of men who think you are the most gorgeous woman on the face of the earth. There truly is a lid for every pot.

Google ‘plus size influencer with fit husband’. I was trying to find one specific woman (Alicia something) but quite a few came up. And no, you’re not guaranteed to have the most gorgeous man you’ve ever seen fall in love with you, but if you stop thinking that you’re lesser than, and a hopeless lost cause and put yourself out there, then that’s going to be a good start. And if you want to lose weight, then great, there are things you can do. But you’re not destined to spend your life alone unless you isolate yourself.

Men like women with a bit of flesh and weight can be lost.

Self pity certainly isn't attractive.