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DS's new "stim" arrrgggghh! (Lighthearted -kind of?!)

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Rottenbanana250 · 06/10/2025 19:31

I love my DS2 and his quirks with all of my heart but he has just developed a new finger clicking stim and I don't know why as he's had noisy ones before but this particular one is grating on EVERY nerve I have left. It's really incessant, sometimes in a pattern, sometimes random and I KNOW he cant help it/is barely aware he's even doing it but arrgghhhh! Any advice please before I rip my own ears off?

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Rottenbanana250 · 06/10/2025 19:48

Bump or I guess click

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Winterscomingbrrr · 06/10/2025 19:49

Ear loops or similiar

ginton · 06/10/2025 19:50

My son had a clapping Stim, so I asked him to wear gloves 🙈🙈 it helped massively with the noise. Not sure if that’s an option for you?

Rottenbanana250 · 06/10/2025 19:52

Winterscomingbrrr · 06/10/2025 19:49

Ear loops or similiar

I've seen them but absolutely HATE things in my ears. I can't wear any ear bud headphones (wonder where DS2 gets it all from!) Are they less intrusive than that?

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Rottenbanana250 · 06/10/2025 19:53

ginton · 06/10/2025 19:50

My son had a clapping Stim, so I asked him to wear gloves 🙈🙈 it helped massively with the noise. Not sure if that’s an option for you?

Ooh that would definitely stop the "clicks" but not sure he would be up for it! 😆 I will fish out some and see tomorrow!

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HumphreyCobblers · 06/10/2025 20:30

Not a stim but my ds grinds his teeth in his sleep. I can hear it through the wall. I cannot bear it.

Sorry I don't have advice but you do have my sympathy.

Rottenbanana250 · 06/10/2025 20:37

HumphreyCobblers · 06/10/2025 20:30

Not a stim but my ds grinds his teeth in his sleep. I can hear it through the wall. I cannot bear it.

Sorry I don't have advice but you do have my sympathy.

Ohh nooooo! That sounds horrible! Thank you for the sympathy and solidarity!

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Winterscomingbrrr · 07/10/2025 09:17

Rottenbanana250 · 06/10/2025 19:52

I've seen them but absolutely HATE things in my ears. I can't wear any ear bud headphones (wonder where DS2 gets it all from!) Are they less intrusive than that?

Not much less intrusive.

HotTiredDog · 07/10/2025 10:08

HumphreyCobblers · 06/10/2025 20:30

Not a stim but my ds grinds his teeth in his sleep. I can hear it through the wall. I cannot bear it.

Sorry I don't have advice but you do have my sympathy.

Can you access some protection for his teeth, ideally through a dentist?
They will stop damage to his teeth.
(my daughter did this, to the extent that a dentist commented on how pronounced her jaw muscles are!)

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