Recently changed mine set with my domestic husband we both have x amount of spending money per month doesn't matter to me who earns what or what we have coming in, end of day we have x once bills are paid and both have x for spends but as a female I tend to do the life admin, birthday Xmas etc etc,adult domestic kids both self sufficient, one mine one his from previous relationship but get treated equally by us both, my hubby has expensive hobby and often spends alot of time money and activities associated with it, so funds soon go thus leaving me for meals out, activities etcetc and unless I want to be a hermit thus I finance things on my end, just been away for the weekend with one child, I paid for accommodation for us all, evening meal and a chosen activities yesterday, so today I made sure he paid for chosen activities and food today secretly laughing my head off when he dared to have a little winge when I stated my activity cost was 80 pounds plus accommodation and food equals Ā£200quid to his Ā£100spend todayš¤š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£one up for me and a vent! Lesson learned for him, and a new pair of boots ordered for myselfšš¤£š¤£š¤£, anyone else have similar issues, lol