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Just how bad is it to not open your curtains first thing?

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Serendipetty · 22/09/2025 09:15

..Because apparently I am a heathen.
I live quite near my Mum, she comes over for a coffee several times a week, I work from home and this is absolutely fine however she came over one morning last week at around 08:30 am and my curtains were still drawn.

Most weekdays I get up around 06:00, walk the dog go to the gym, get home shower and start work at 09:00. It was still dark when I got up but obviously not by the time I got home.

My friend owns a nightclub in the nearest city. I used to work there on a weekend while studying. Some Saturday nights if I am free, I go to see friend, have a few drinks and help tidy up, look after the staff (he has acts on often)do anything that needs doing. He doesn't close until 04:00-05:00 so sometimes I get home and It's early hours of the morning-I don't open my curtains when I get home and am generally still asleep at daybreak-again my Mum had driven to my house around 10:00 and I was just getting up, my curtains still drawn.

This is very unacceptable apparently, 'people will think It's a dosshouse' etc etc.

I live in a very quiet private road, next to no foot traffic, not sure if this makes a difference but I am damned if I am getting home at 04:00 and getting up again at 07:00 (ish) just to open my bloody curtains-and should I just open them while It's still dark if I am heading off to walk my dog/gym before daybreak?

I am not the most observant with house situations-if a neighbour of mine didn't open their curtains I doubt I'd notice unless it had been days on end.

OP posts:
MidnightMeltdown · 26/09/2025 11:57

Depends on how old your neighbours are. Mine is in her 80s and recently informed me that your not supposed to hang your washing out on a Sunday!

MiddleAgedDread · 26/09/2025 12:01

This is exactly the sort of nonsense my mother gets her knickers in a twist about too!! Some mornings I leave them closed to keep the heat in, or the sun out, or today I left BF's closed because whilst I was up, showered and dressed he'd gone to the gym and still had to shower later and no one needs to witness him wandering around in the buff

Dearg · 26/09/2025 12:08

My MIL was like that. Scottish Presbyterian - curtains open otherwise who knew what sinning could be going on ! And @MidnightMeltdown positively no washing hanging on a Sunday.

I am afraid I disappointed on all fronts - washing, window blinds, sinning …

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