My oldest daughter is 8.She has ASD and can struggle alot with emotional regulation.
My 3.5yo just slapped her and my 8 year old got very angry and instantly lashed out back, by kicking her multiple times in the stomach area (think punching like in a boxing movement, but with her feet instead of fists)
Would you be getting youngest DD checked out incase of internal injury?
She seems fine at the moment- cried lots when it happened and coughed slightly but recovered minutes after.Oldest DD had sternly been told never to hurt her in that way again despite it being a knee jerk reaction and her now being remorseful.They are now playing like nothing has happened but I'm concerned as youngest DD's toddler stomach is obviously still quite fragile at her age!