anyone else just feel like ur doin it all on ur own

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just feelin a bit meh tonight x house looks like a bomb site still n im sat here just cryin into my cuppa lol

bf’s out workin late again said he’s knackered n probs wont come round til sunday
eldest has been moodier than ever
middle 2 been scrappin nonstop
nursery rang AGAIN bout the little one 🙄

just feels like im doin everythin on my own n no one sees it
i aint even had a proper convo today that wasnt tellin someone to stop throwin toast or wipe their bum

9 weeks pregnant n wonderin how im gonna do this with another one
sorry if this is a downer just needed to let it out xx

This sounds incredibly hard. Do you have any support from family? Is the nursery able to put a plan in place to meet the needs of that child?

If you don’t think you can cope with another baby, there is no shame in that at all. There’s a lot on your plate. Does the father not live with you? Do you think he will help you?

nah he dont live here x we not been together that long n its all a bit up n down tbh. he says he’ll help but its all talk right now innit 🙄

my mum helps sometimes but mostly just judges me n says i brought it on myself. rest of my fam dont really bother

nursery said they’ll do a meeting thing soon but its been ages waitin. he’s only 4 but full on n they keep sayin about early help again

i aint sayin i dont want this baby just feels scary like i already feel maxed out most days

thanks for replyin means a lot xx