Years ago, there was a woman sending seductive photos and messages to my then boyfriend. clothed, but certain angles/positions/looks and speaking to him as though they were a couple. I was essentially being gaslit by both of them. They were telling me that it was ok, there was nothing wrong with it, that I am imagining a problem etc. after a while of these excuses, I posted some of the photos the woman had sent to my boyfriend, as well as screenshots of some of her messages to reddit to ask for the opinions of other people. I got a massive amount of backlash from people in general for posting those photos without her consent and my posts were removed. They told me that I was in the wrong, but I genuinely to this day, don’t understand why