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Paranoid or is he be unreasonable

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Chattyham · 06/05/2025 19:10

Keeping this short.
a partner who is constantly looking at females. Whilst driving, whilst out with the kids, shopping, park, beach everywhere. His eyes are on every female that goes by, especially those who are wearing something nice, tight shorts, cleavage etc. we’re 36 and 37. I’m thinking… seriously this is embarrassing!
is this normal or too much. Am I right in asking him to stop doing this and tell him I feel it’s disrespectful.I get women catch a man’s eye occasionally but all the time??

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pinkyredrose · 06/05/2025 19:12

Yuk, what a sleazeball. Do any of the women notice him staring at them?

Chattyham · 06/05/2025 19:27

I’d say some of them possibly do which is really embarrassing for me and for them too I guess.

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Greenfields20 · 06/05/2025 19:36

No it's not normal to be doing this to the point of you noticing it

yeesh · 06/05/2025 19:39

Of course it’s not normal, he is a creep 🤮

RentalWoesNotFun · 06/05/2025 19:46

If he does that to your face i can only imagine what’s in his phone……

WorthyOtter · 06/05/2025 20:06

Have you spoke to him about it?

Chattyham · 06/05/2025 21:23

Thank you for your replies. Yes I’ve spoken to him about it. He reckons he doesn’t think he does it.
its blatantly obvious that he’s looking at women constantly and I can’t even pretend not to see him do it anymore. If he sees me seeing him he will start over talking or acting strange which in itself is awkward as we’ve been together a long time and we’re just out with kids doing life etc and I don’t need this childish nonsense but I also feel like I can’t let it carry on. Why should I have to ignore it. I don’t look at every man who passes. The odd guy occasionally yes normal. Same for him, the odd woman yes, normal but not every female in tight shorts, good Looking etc.. I told him this evening that he needs to be careful as when he’s old enough to be a dad to these females he’s looking at as he doesn’t know their age when he sees a good arse etc.

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Chattyham · 06/05/2025 21:31

I wouldn’t say he’s staring but every one of the Se women ‘catches his eye’ and some have a second glance 🙄

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