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My ex has had a dream about me last night.

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Mum2Threeish · 12/04/2025 22:44

It’s been almost 20 years since we last saw each other, probably 19.5 since we were last in touch, and he texted me today saying he didn’t know if I still had the same number but he hoped so because he had a dream about me last night and felt compelled to get in touch.

No big backstory. We dated for about 18 months in our late teens but drifted apart when I left on a gap year and didn’t want to do long distance. When I got back, he had found a job in London and moved so we kept in social media touch, but there was no big painful split. I met my now husband shortly after and we’re happily married so I have no desire to re-engage with a man from my past.

Nice to know I clearly left an impression 😁

Kind of curious to know what the dream was, though.

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lovemetomybones · 12/04/2025 22:45

Curiosity killed the cat 🐈

cestlavielife · 12/04/2025 22:47

He is making up a story
Don't be drawn in
You cannot know what he is dreaming

Ohisitjustme · 12/04/2025 22:52

Has he just divorced his wife? That's why my ex contacted me. I blocked him without replying.

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Mum2Threeish · 12/04/2025 23:01

Ohisitjustme · 12/04/2025 22:52

Has he just divorced his wife? That's why my ex contacted me. I blocked him without replying.

Last I heard (from a mutual friend from uni), he divorced his second wife about five years ago so heaven knows what his status is now.

Just to be clear- I have no romantic interest in him (or any man, I’m lucky to have a very lovely husband and I would not be impressed if he was messaging an ex so I’m going to provide the same courtesy), but I’m a nosey cow and wonder what triggered the contact. I don’t think our relationship was be of those really impactful ones, for either of us.

Like @lovemetomybones said- 🐈 💀

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