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Anti-valentines day ideas

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Iloveplants4321 · 10/02/2025 01:49

With the day of love fast approaching I am looking for ideas to make it the most non-romantic day ever. Any suggestions? So far I'm thinking of going to the cinema to watch a horror film and go to a rage room. Probably have a big mac at some point?

(Bonus points if I avoid nauseating loved up couples at all costs) TIA

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Happycow · 10/02/2025 05:51

I've booked myself a dentist appointment and plan on getting the mould off the shower door seal..... does that count??

verycloakanddaggers · 10/02/2025 05:51

Are you ok?

That's not a snippy question, it's a genuine one, because being so anti something you could just let pass by unnoticed suggests some upset?

Brew
verycloakanddaggers · 10/02/2025 05:54

Agree it's a good day for chores, am sure places like DIY stores and supermarkets are less busy if lots of couples are doing other things.

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Matildatoldsuchdreadfullies · 10/02/2025 05:55

I agree with @verycloakanddaggers . Surely the most anti-thing to do is go about your daily business, and give the day no thought? Anything else gives the message that it matters.

AnneButNotHathaway · 10/02/2025 05:58

Watching a horror movie sounds like a perfect plan, or you can have a movie night at home and watch a horror related to Valentine's day. Do as you please, it's your day and doing whatever makes you feel happier is always right, even if others don't quite get it.

Devilsmommy · 10/02/2025 06:17

I'm intrigued. What's a rage room? Sounds like a horror movie place itself so good call. Tbh just do what you do any other day, that's what I imagine most people do. I watch a horror movie every night so it would definitely be normal for me 😁

Influencerofcrap · 10/02/2025 06:23

verycloakanddaggers · 10/02/2025 05:51

Are you ok?

That's not a snippy question, it's a genuine one, because being so anti something you could just let pass by unnoticed suggests some upset?

Brew

Said whilst tilting head…

GlitterArsey · 10/02/2025 06:23

I don't think I ever see any "nauseating loved up couples" on Valentine's day tbh. I just go about my normal business (which on a normal Friday is school run, dog walk, work, school run, kids tea/bath/bedtime, collapse on my own in front of TV) and usually treat myself to some nice chocolates and fizzy wine because they're always on offer!

Pumpkincarved · 10/02/2025 06:24

Agree with previous posters - if you want to avoid Valentines Day then stay home. Plenty of loved up couples enjoy horror films and rage rooms literally appear on lists of unusual date ideas.

Know it’s cheesy but I think Galentines Day is a better way to reject it (celebrating friendship on 13th February) or if everyone you know is part of the loved up mass then stay home or go out another time and have a day that’s all about pampering yourself.

LostMyLanyard · 10/02/2025 06:42

I'm taking my grandchildren swimming after school then we are going to Burger King. Can't wait...💖🥰😍

Coconutter24 · 10/02/2025 06:43

Just go about your day as normal?

Allswellthatendswelll · 10/02/2025 07:17

It's just a marketing opportunity! I don't think the streets with be thronged with loved up couples. I'd stay off social media and you'll be grand.

DH is getting me some flowers but I've told him to get them half price on the 15th. V romantic!

Galentines I'm all in favour of though!

PerambulationFrustration · 10/02/2025 08:23

I've got my mil over for dinner

Potatowonkeyes · 10/02/2025 09:09

@Happycow That definitely counts!

@verycloakanddaggers I've just been dumped (whole other thread!) I am in that self pity stage of heartbreak where every where you go you seem to be surronded by happy couples/every song reminds you of them etc 😅I need a distraction so I don't wallow in the house drinking wine singing Celine Dions 'All by myself' Bridget Jones style!

@Devilsmommy The jist is it's a room where they give you an assortment of weapons such a baseball bats/crowbars and fill it with pottery, ornaments, mirrors and a host of other 'breakables' to basically smash the shit out of. (I can't decide if this sounds like a healthy release of anger though to be fair!)

Devilsmommy · 10/02/2025 09:11

@Potatowonkeyes rage rooms sound excellent. I need to find one. They sound extremely cathartic 😁

squashyhat · 10/02/2025 09:18

Potatowonkeyes · 10/02/2025 09:09

@Happycow That definitely counts!

@verycloakanddaggers I've just been dumped (whole other thread!) I am in that self pity stage of heartbreak where every where you go you seem to be surronded by happy couples/every song reminds you of them etc 😅I need a distraction so I don't wallow in the house drinking wine singing Celine Dions 'All by myself' Bridget Jones style!

@Devilsmommy The jist is it's a room where they give you an assortment of weapons such a baseball bats/crowbars and fill it with pottery, ornaments, mirrors and a host of other 'breakables' to basically smash the shit out of. (I can't decide if this sounds like a healthy release of anger though to be fair!)

Celine Dion's All By Myself? How very dare you! Eric Carmen is rolling in his grave.

GameOfJones · 10/02/2025 09:19

Just stay at home like a normal day? I don't see "loved up couples" everywhere on Valentine's Day but then we stay at home and I'm not on much social media.

I have a lovely day planned of attending an employment law seminar. How romantic!

Screamingabdabz · 10/02/2025 09:27

Valentine’s Day has never meant anything to me, even as part of a loved up couple. Just ignore it. It’s just a made up commercial bullshit day.

DalzielOrNoDalzielAndDontPascoe · 10/02/2025 09:29

squashyhat · 10/02/2025 09:18

Celine Dion's All By Myself? How very dare you! Eric Carmen is rolling in his grave.

As has been Rachmaninoff for a lot longer!!

OneLilacGuide · 10/02/2025 09:31

I’m going to get a Dine In for 2 meal and eat it all myself ❤️

DalzielOrNoDalzielAndDontPascoe · 10/02/2025 09:37

Screamingabdabz · 10/02/2025 09:27

Valentine’s Day has never meant anything to me, even as part of a loved up couple. Just ignore it. It’s just a made up commercial bullshit day.

m.youtube.com/watch?v=eygsGzLX07A&pp=ygUXc2ltcHNvbnMgaGFwcHkgbG92ZSBkYXk%3D

DalzielOrNoDalzielAndDontPascoe · 10/02/2025 09:40

I suppose you could always approach lots of people in the street and tell them that you hate them?!!

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