Just that really. Gave DP's 20 year-old (moved out a year ago, fiercely independent but has history of self harming) a lift last night and found a vape in the footwell of my car today. They have stated categorically that they have stopped vaping following historical discovery of tobacco, Rizlas and admittance of spliffs.
Please don't have a go at me, it's this that is the crux: I'm not a parent - would you want to know?