Today would have been my Jack's 30th birthday...(Trigger Babyloss)

[Elderflower14]

He lived for two hours 30 years ago.. He was born at 26 weeks and had a brain haemorrhage.. We had to make the decision to switch his life support off... Stay Another Day by E17 was no 1...Oh the irony.
Today we went to his grave and decorated it. He was remembered in the prayers at chapel tonight. We have just come home and lit his candles... 💙 💙
We normally have a sign each year, either ladybirds, Robins, or we hear his song.. Today the Pastor was talking about angels so that was our sign... Wilf gave me a beautiful angel with Jack's name on and I bought the angel sign...

Happy Birthday to your Jack. And gentle unmumsnetty hugs.

Happy Birthday Jack x

Hi L. I'm so sorry. Life is so cruel. I'm thinking about you and Wilf and sending you both a massive hug. You are both such lovely people

I totally believe in signs too.

Happy birthday to your little boy, Jack. I'm sorry you went through that, sending caring thoughts your way.

I’m so sorry this happened to you Elderflower. Happy birthday Jack 💕

Happy Birthday to your lovely Jack @Elderflower14 ❤️
The signs our loved ones send us are always such a comfort - I’m glad you got yours today 💐
Sending you and your family lots of love today

Sending love to you 🫂

Thankyou everyone ♥️

I’m so sorry @Elderflower14 . Thank you for sharing this with us. Sending you thoughts and remembering Jack.

Awww, how sad. I'm so sorry @Elderflower14

Happy 30th Jack!

So sorry. May his memory be a blessing forever.
Taken far too soon.

Happy birthday jack.

il have a word with my dad to see if he can meet up with you to celebrate up there.

I am sorry you can’t spend today with him @Elderflower14

Happy heavenly birthday Jack 💔

Happy Heavenly Birthday Jack.

I also believe in signs x

Happy birthday to Jack and I'm glad you have your angel as a sign. Big hug. 💕

Wow that's so lovely, how beautifully remembered and sending big hugs, happy birthday Jack.

Clearly never forgotten and forever cherished. A much loved boy xx

Happy Birthday to your beautiful little boy 🩷

Sending lots of love, I lost my baby girl Charlotte at 26 weeks this year, she stayed strong for 3 days. X

Your love for him shines through and is touching. Sending love ❤️ to you x

Happy Birthday to your greatly loved Jack. I was sad to hear he did not live a long life. Sending hugs as it is a sad time for you.

Happy Birthday, Jack. You're so loved. ❤️

I have a little one who was born and died too soon, too. At hard times, I always see signs from them. Thinking of you today, OP. You aren't alone.

I've just caught up with your lovely messages... Thankyou ♥️