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Taking child on holiday - permission question

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Againstthegrainn · 15/12/2024 17:28

Hi all

I have a CAO. It doesn't say anything about holidays on it. I understand if there's specific wording on it, then I can take ds on holiday without his dad's permission

Rather than saying "lives with" it says the following;

The court orders by consent the following;

The child shall continue to reside with the mother

Does this mean I can take ds for up to 28 days? I am only going for 4

Tia

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Againstthegrainn · 15/12/2024 17:47

And to add, anytime I message ds's father he ignores me. He pops up twice a year if that, so it's impossible to get a letter from him. Tried once before and ended up not going anywhere out of fear of breaking the rules

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daisydaisyrose · 15/12/2024 21:02

Yes you can, for up to 28 days. Just don't forget to take the court order with you!

Againstthegrainn · 15/12/2024 22:08

Thank you @daisydaisyrose ! I'll remember to take it with me

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Lizzyqueen · 16/06/2025 15:19

Againstthegrainn · 15/12/2024 17:28

Hi all

I have a CAO. It doesn't say anything about holidays on it. I understand if there's specific wording on it, then I can take ds on holiday without his dad's permission

Rather than saying "lives with" it says the following;

The court orders by consent the following;

The child shall continue to reside with the mother

Does this mean I can take ds for up to 28 days? I am only going for 4

Tia

I am also here with the same question. I also have a CAO. I am confused by the wording.

did you take your child on holiday?

Againstthegrainn · 16/06/2025 18:22

Lizzyqueen · 16/06/2025 15:19

I am also here with the same question. I also have a CAO. I am confused by the wording.

did you take your child on holiday?

Yes I ended up taking my child on holiday. No one batted an eye. I was expectimg questions but it was fine :) took the CAO just incase

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Lizzyqueen · 16/06/2025 18:26

Againstthegrainn · 16/06/2025 18:22

Yes I ended up taking my child on holiday. No one batted an eye. I was expectimg questions but it was fine :) took the CAO just incase

That’s great news. Happy to hear. Can I ask which country you took your children on holiday?

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