DH who doesn't want sex

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I'm constantly irritated by posts about DH not wanting sex getting replies claiming DH must be gay. Just to reassure anyone in that position, an article written by a man. Google 'I'm in a sexless marriage and have never been happier.'

If someone is posting about their husband not wanting sex, it's because they're not happy about it. They're looking for what's 'wrong' because their husband hasn't communicated to them why their sex life has ended. That obviously causes speculation and leads to 'if he isn't telling you why he doesn't want sex it must be something terrible, embarrassing or life changing' and leads to advice such as he may be gay or addicted to porn etc. So I'm not sure anyone will feel reassured by reading an article by someone who says they're in a sexless marriage and have never been happier as the poster posting about it isn't happy.

https://www.zinio.com/gb/article/good-housekeeping-uk/january-2025-i631936/can-a-sexless-marriage-be-a-happy-one-a109909